Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives L.A.

Keeping It Real: The 1st episode was off the chain! LOL What I'm trying to understand is, why is Shaunie giving Gloria the spotlight like that? I thought she wanted to whip her ass and her SISTER, but is now fattening their pockets? Hmmmmmmmm


Anyways, Gloria was keeping it real on the 1st BBW, to me she is still keeping it real, BUT I didn't like the way ole boy pushed her out of the way in the kitchen! Wasn't he arrested for domestic abuse against her? Hit me once, shame on me, fuck the 2nd time! Now Kimsha, LOVE HER, was keeping it real, reminds me of NeNe Leakes but without the BULLYING! Imani, seems like she is cool as hell and can be trusted! Laura, Gloria's sister, she acts and dresses hood, well her dress is not hood, she CAN'T dress, on the real! She speaks her mind, that is for damn sure! "LIKE"!! Draya, hmmmmm, she is the prettiest one and seems sharp and cool as hell! She keeps it real & the only reason, they wouldn't want her around without giving her a chance is the way she looks & do not TRUST their mates! So what, she used to strip and dated a couple of players, ANDDDD???? Right!! Jackie seems cool as hell, hooded BUT has finesse with it! LIKE!!! Tanya, LOL, she is the motivator BUT fake as hell! It is all about Tanya! When she moved the spotlight from Jackie's mother who has cancer to herself and her child, mmmmf, mmmf, mmmf! How dare she? She tries to bring some kind of balance amongst the women BUT at the wrong times! WOW!  Last but not least, Malaysia, who goes by her middle name because 1st name is HOOD!! She is phony as hell and needs to keep it real! She has 2 different personas! Around the BBW, she acts all high and mighty but around her Compton girls, she acts like herself! Why not be original?!


I think this series will be BETTER than BBW number one because the women seem MORE REAL! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Plan "A"

Keeping It Real: If plan "A" doesn't work, the alphabet has 25 more letters. Don't give up! Keep working towards your goals!Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: 4 The Ladies-Your Favorite Celeb & Would You?..

Keeping It Real: You luck up and meet your favorite celeb in the whole wide world and he takes you out to eat but when the check comes, he says, awwwww damn, I left my wallet, pay for this and I gotcha, would you? He says we can do the wild thing, but you must pay for the room for the weekend and you only get to stay one night, would you? You find out, he is bisexual and wants to include another man, would you? The last woman he was with, was known for having all kind of venereal diseases and he wants sex with no condom, would you? He slept with your 3 G=good, good girlfriend, your bestest, just sex, no strings and now he wants you at a later date, would you? 

If you said yes to any of the above, you are no longer a fan and or groupie, you have surpassed that, YOU ARE A DAMN FOOL! Ya Dig?...        

Lesson Of The Day: Thanks Father....

I could have never imagined when I woke up this morning how God was going to bless me today! Thank you God for Your goodness toward me. 

I pray His blessing and peace overtake and enrapture you and remind you that our God is HUGE, limitless, and loves you more than you can possibly imagine. Be Blessed...Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: If You....

Keeping It Real:

If you Money, Then Im Paid,
If You the Fingers, Im the Braid,.
If you God, Im Saved.
If you Cement, then Im Paved.
If you the Fury, Im the Rage.
If you the Book, Then Im the Page
If you the Icing, Im the Cake,
If You Real, Then I'll be Fake.
If you Gravy, Im the Bread,
If you the Cook, then Im Fed.
If you the Butler, Im the Maid .
If You the Ace of Hearts, Im the Ace of Spades
If you the Tailor, Im the Suit,
If you Vegetables, Im the Fruit.
If you the Check, Im the Bank,
If you are Welcome, Im the Thanks.
If you the Burger, Im the Bun,
If you the Party, I'm the Fun.
If you Soft, Then I'm Rough,
If you Tender, Im Tough.
If you Horny, Im the Sex,
If you are EasyGoing, Im Complex.
If you the Peace, Im the Pipe,
If you are Crack, Im the Hype.
If you are Incredible, I'm Amazing,
If you the Blunt, then Im Blazing.
If you the Trick, Im the Treat,
If you are Sour, Im Sweet.
If you the Topping, Im the Ice Cream
If you the Orgasm, then Im the Scream.
If you the Bread, Im Butter,
If you Flicker, Then I Flutter. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Now They Want To Get Mad...

Keeping It Real: Now, since Obama's regime, all of a sudden, folks have gotten mad, and want to take America Back...BACK TO WHAT/WHERE is my question?????

After The 8 Years Of The Bush/Cheney Disaster, Now You Get Mad?

You didn't get mad when the Supreme Court stopped a legal recount and appointed a President.

You didn't get mad when Cheney allowed Energy company officials to dictate Energy policy and push us to invade Iraq.

You didn't get mad when a covert CIA operative got outed.

You didn't get mad when the Patriot Act got passed.

You didn't get mad when we illegally invaded a country that posed no threat to us.

You didn't get mad when we spent over 800 billion (and counting) on said illegal war.

You didn't get mad when Bush borrowed more money from foreign sources than the previous 42 Presidents combined.

You didn't get mad when over 10 billion dollars in cash just disappeared in Iraq.

You didn't get mad when you found out we were torturing people.

You didn't get mad when Bush embraced trade and outsourcing policies that shipped 6 million American jobs out of the country.

You didn't get mad when the government was illegally wiretapping Americans.

You didn't get mad when we didn't catch Bin Laden.

You didn't get mad when Bush rang up 10 trillion dollars in combined budget and current account deficits.

You didn't get mad when you saw the horrible conditions at Walter Reed.

You didn't get mad when we let a major US city, New Orleans, drown.

You didn't get mad when we gave people who had more money than they could spend, the filthy rich, over a trillion dollars in tax breaks.

You didn't get mad with the worst 8 years of job creations in several decades.

You didn't get mad when over 200,000 US Citizens lost their lives because they had no health insurance.

You didn't get mad when lack of oversight and regulations from the Bush Administration caused US Citizens to lose 12 trillion dollars in investments, retirement, and home values.

You finally got mad when a black man was elected President and decided that people in America deserved the right to see a doctor if they are sick. Yes, illegal wars, lies, corruption, torture, job losses by the millions, stealing your tax dollars to make the rich richer, and the worst economic disaster since 1929 are all okay with you, but helping fellow Americans who are sick...Oh, Hell No!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Foe Friend

Keeping It Real: Sometimes you have to encourage yourself...your closest friend can turn out to be your Biggest Hater! Silent friends during your time of accomplishment/joy is the biggest indicator of jealousy. Keep an eye on your close friend...Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Personal Hygiene & Cleanliness

Keeping It Real: If you are a grown ass person, mainly a woman & I have to tell you to go wash your hands after using MY bathroom, something is wrong with that picture & please believe, I will NEVER, EVER eat anything you have cooked! I have told a couple of friends after exiting from my bathroom (because, you can hear water run) and if they exit too fast, you know their hands have not been washed and they will not walk around my house spreading their nasty germs! Some have been offended & said, OH I FORGOT! Have can you forget to do something, that is supposedly, automatic after using bathroom? That goes for men too! Women have periods, they shit & piss, how can you forgot to wash hands?! We miss sometimes & men hold theirs!

I had a friend get upset with me, when I told her daughter at 9 years old when she used my bathroom and didn't wash her hands, that everything she did that day was going into her mouth! That was pee, booboo and any & everything she touched was going back into her mouth! Her mother said, children really do not have to wash their hands! WTF...I asked when would she start teaching them to wash their hands? It starts at a young age, how else would it be instilled in them to do something that is so necessary? She got pissed but after other friends found out why?, her frown turned into a smile along with an apology!

My son & daughter were taught this and their children KNOW even at 3years old to wash their hands before exiting the bathroom.


Personal hygiene and cleanliness begins at home. If you don't teach them young, how will they know? Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Lost Black Man....

Keeping It Real: Why is it, that when some Black men dates a NON Black woman then dates a Black woman again, his opinion of his sisters change?

You want to date a non-Black woman?, I have no problem with that but there's no need to disrespect us because you have lost your way!

Our aggressiveness used to be the STRONG woman you so desired! Our need to be independent suddenly becomes we want to be THE MAN! Our hearty laugh & voice becomes we are too loud!

In my opinion, the Black men that find us lacking is saying a lot about their own feelings & heritage, ESPECIALLY if they have Black grannies, mothers, sisters, aunts, daughters, nieces and girl cousins! It speaks volumes to me!

No need to put them on a pedestal above us just to "justify" why you are dating out! Just date them without dissing your sisters! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Turning 18 Years Old

Keeping It Real: Just because your YOUNG ass is turning 18 doesn't give you an I'm GROWN card to call your elders by their 1st name! Once they turn 18, its goes from Ms. Ashley and or Davis (was married, now divorce name) to Toni/Tonya! WTF & WTH...I didn't get younger when you became an adult or turned 18, it just means you are of legal age! No way does it states, OK, disrespect the very people who help you make it to 18 and also NEVER disrespected you! In the city where I reside, ALMOST ALL the young folks call me Auntie Toni, related or not! If they try and venture out and call me by my 1st name, I no doubt, demand my respect! Toni/Tonya, my ass! If you don't want to call me Auntie, drop it and put a Ms. in front of that name! Ya Dig? 

Lesson Of The Day: May God Bless & Watch Over You Always

Keeping It Real: There are 12 months/12 disciples/12 tribes of Israel / Jesus' birth celebrated in the 12th month. Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. There is no cost, just a lot of reward. Make sure you pray, and pray believing God will answer. May today be all you need it to be. Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: I Just Filed For Divorce

Keeping It Real: I just filed for divorce. I'm divorcing my past; divorcing my pain; divorcing my doubt; divorcing my setbacks; divorcing my failures; divorcing my low self-esteem and divorcing my lack. The Judge gave me full custody of my destiny, full custody of my call, and full custody of my life. He has also provided me with my own personal Counselor (Holy Spirit) who will guide me to all truths and give me the courage and tenacity to face whatever comes my way. Divorce yourself from your past so that your future can be released.  Just a little something-something to think about. GET A DIVORCE TODAY. Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: I Don't Like Drama

Keeping It Real: Why is it, with people who say, they don't like drama, drama free & non confrontational ALWAYS in some shit? They are the main ones, whose name is always being added to drama! They say little shit, then, I don't want any drama, they do little shit, then say, I am not confrontational and have the nerve to say, this is a drama free zone UNTIL THEY STIR UP SOME MORE SHIT! If all they can bring to the table is drama, it's time to start feeding them crow and letting them eat alone! Ya Dig?... 

Lesson Of The Day: 2 Children Standing Side By Side

Keeping It Real: Why would a person rave and rave and just gush all OVER ONE child because they are prettier and say absolutely NOT ONE WORD about the other child? 

If you stand ACCUSED, have you ever watched the reaction and or even looked into the child's face that is being overlooked, left out & possibly made to think, well damn, am I ugly ? 

When a person starts gushing over one of my granddaughters and not the other, I interrupt them, "yes, I said interrupt" their asses and say BOTH OF MY GRANDBABIES are gorgeous! They usually give me a *blank stare* until that little light bulb pops on in their little ass brain, that I am making the other child feel little about themselves because my brain is too small to think! Ya Dig?..  

Lesson Of The Day: Homosexual/Gay Men

Keeping It Real: 1st, I hope I didn't offend anyone with the "gay" in title! I have NO idea what to call them, as some seem to think being called gay is offensive! My apologies, if you are offended!


Onto the matter at hand, why are some gay men using Ms. in front of their name, now and CLEARLY are not women? I, understand, they may have feminine ways, like men, dress and act like a woman BUT in no way IS A WOMAN! So why are they using Ms. in front of their name? 

Like Ms. J from ANTM or Ms. Derek J from Hair Battle Spectacular. 

I don't see lesbians and or gay women doing that! Would folks have a problem with Mr. Ellen Degeneres, Mr. Melissa Etheridge, what about Mr. Queen Latifah? mmm hmmmm Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Home

Keeping It Real: Remember Luther's song, "A house is not a home"! You can always turn a home into a house, that is easy, just move some furniture in and voila!! But to turn a house into a home takes real people with love for one another, I am talking real love! It is easy to move in with someone but to turn your house you move into, into a home, takes HARD WORK! A house is not a home but a home can be a house at anytime, which means a home is a home but a home turned into a house means LOVE is there, not just relationship love, but, FAMILY love as well! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: African American (the names)

Keeping It Real: We have went from being called boy & girl, to Colored, to Negro, to Black and now African American! Who thought of this?

1st, I am an American with heritage from Africa among other nationalities! I do not hail from Africa, so why should I have to agree being called an African American?! I am an American and Black! 

My parents didn't come from Africa, they were born right here in the good ole USA! Don't get me wrong, I do not have a problem with my African heritage BUT I do have a problem with being TAGGED!  I have a problem with the boy and girl reference, most definitely being called COLORED, when I am on the phone and they asked if I am a "colored" woman, I say, what color?, red, green, orange, then person will say, I mean Black, yeah right! I have problem with Negro, sounds like and too close to the "N" word but being called a Black American is fine with me or just plain ole American! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Thanks Father

Keeping It Real: Today is a gift of grace. Share something precious with someone you like.  Take 60 seconds to be nice to someone. Rejoice in the miracles of your life.  Identify one thing you're happy about.  Be glad you have family & friends. I know, He is watching over me and I am feeling truly Blessed! For no matter, what I pray for, He always knows what is best! Amen..Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Celebs & Sex Symbol Status

Keeping It Real: Idris Elba, one of my personal favorites in showbiz, has stated he do not think he is sex symbol status! I have heard numerous celebs that are fine as hell, say this, even though, they have googobs of women slipping them their digits, throwing panties at them, having no shame trying to grab their privates, wanting hugs, kisses and just to be recognized by their fav celeb! 

I, personally find it hard to believe, because of what women fans will do!!! B/S! 

When women celebs think they are NOT being given any attention, they go to extreme measures like taking their clothes off or doing something ri-DAM-diculous! Ya Dig?...     

Lesson Of The Day: "Some" Black Celebrity Men

Keeping It Real: Why do some Black celeb men associate Black women with stupid and dumb? Some famous Black celeb men are turning to our white counterparts when their pockets are fat and they have made a little status for themselves! Why is it, when their asses are in trouble and or they become BROKE, THENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN they want to run back over to the dark side?

For instance, Wesley Snipes who denounced Black women in one of our OWN magazines, then when his career took a DIVE, because we, the BLACK women quit going to see his movies,  here he comes back begging, never apologized for his words, BUT NOW he wants back in! This man literally said, he do not want an aggressive nappy head ass woman! WHAT??? I guess he forgot he had a Mother, Aunts, Grandmother, Girl cousins, possibly sisters & nieces who are Black! How are you going to bite the hand that FEEDS your dumb ass? We made you and we can damn sure leave your ass just where you are at! They can have you, we no longer will go see your movies, how about that for aggression?! Then we have OJ's dumb ass, what happened after we helped his ass, he ran back to the other side and look where he is at now, JAIL! What about Skip Masters?, was on The Tom Joyner Morning Show. He has a book out: "How I Broke My Addiction to White Women; An Ultimate Tribute to Black Women" *blank stare* Yeah, until Black women buy your book and fattening back up your pockets, then what? and the list goes on....


You want to date a non-Black woman?, I have no problem with that, but there's no need to disrespect us, because you have lost your way! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Nosey Neighbors

Keeping It Real: Sometimes, it is ok to have nosey neighbors, because they are like the neighborhood watch, making sure everything is copacetic and burglars beware because they have 911 on speed dial. These nosey neighbors I can appreciate BUT what I don't like is the nosey neighbors that watch what you take into your house after grocery shopping so they can BORROW!

Why did I come from the store and after taking packages into house, neighbor sends child across street and asked can she borrow SOME DAMN POTATOES?! 1st of all, how do you borrow potatoes? 2ndly, when I said I didn't have any, the child proceeded to tell me, yes you do, we just saw you take some into your house! WTF and WTH is what I wanted to say to him but being a child, I gave him some potatoes and told him, tell your mother, I said to come here for a minute. Needless to say, the "heffa" had what she wanted and didn't come BUT I know there will be a next time because she always borrowing something! Ya Dig?... 

Lesson Of The Day: Jennifer & Eric Williams

Keeping It Real: The finale on BasketBall wives ended with Toothy, er rah, ahem, I mean Unicorn head, excuse me, damn, I meant Eric, throwing an entire drink in Jen's face! Was it a BITCH move?, yes! Do I think he would have done it without the cameras rolling?, YES!

Eric is like MOSTLY all men, TYPICAL!! When a man has a good thing and takes advantage, LIKE HE WAS CLEARLY doing, does he miss it when it is gone?, hell to the yes! Eric has come to the realization that his unattractive ass has FUCKED up. Jen is and HAS moved on to bigger and better things in her life! Why is it, that when a man has been clearly messing up throughout the relationship and never thinks the woman will leave BUT when she does and he finally realizes she is moving on, they do BITCH moves like Eric did?


What the hell does 40 have to do with anything? and to tell her she is NOTHING!!! HA!!!!! Who the hell is Eric Williams, an UNHEARD RETIRED BB player who NEEDS JEN to make himself look good! He should have been happy to have her on his arm, BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, for the 1st 2 seasons of show, Eric wasn't around, he was DOING Eric! I wrote a song about it, want hear it, here it goes: Now that she's gone, all that's left is the big teeth and knot on his forehead, all that's left is a band of gold and instead of begging her forgiveness, he chose to show all his BITCHASSNESS! HA!!!!!


Jen, I am so proud of you for leaving his no good ass and moving on! As you say, KEEP IT MOVING, girlfriend! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Adult Truths

Keeping It Real: 

1. I think part of a best friend's job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die.
           
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.
           
3. I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger.
            

4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.

           
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
          
6. Was learning cursive really necessary?
           
7.  Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my
neighborhood.
           
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
           
9. I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least kind of tired.
           
10. Bad decisions make good stories.
           
11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.
           
12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray?  I don't want to have to restart my
collection...again.
           
13. I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page technical report that I swear I did not make any changes to.
           
14. I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
           
15. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.
           
16. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lite than Kay.
           
17. I wish Google Maps had an "Avoid Ghetto" routing option.
           
18. I have a hard time deciphering the fine line between boredom and hunger.
           
19. How many times is it appropriate to say "What?" before you just nod and smile because you still didn't hear or understand a word they said?
           
20. I love the sense of camaraderie when an entire line of cars team up to prevent a jerk from cutting in at the
front. Stay strong, brothers and sisters!
           
21. Shirts get dirty. Underwear gets dirty. Pants? Pants never get dirty, and you can wear them forever...
           
22. Sometimes I'll look down at my watch three consecutive times and still not know what time it is.
           
23. Even under ideal conditions people have trouble locating their car keys in a pocket, finding their cell phone, and Pinning the Tail on the Donkey; but I'd bet everyone can find and push the snooze button from 3-feet away, in about 1.7 seconds, eyes closed, first time, every time.
           
24. People who forward e-mail without deleting the tons of previous recipients should be shot and then tarred and feathered! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Criminals

Keeping It Real: Most criminals are so smart, they are stupid to the point of being really dumb! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Celebrity Christianity

Keeping It Real: If you are a celeb Christian, mainly an acting one, would you take a role that involves nudity and use of curse words?! 

Some folks say, why can't they?, it evolves around their jobs! 

I SAY HELL TO THE NAW, because they have an option to not even take the role after reading the script!

How can you be a "saved", born again, God is the 1st thing in your life, (even though folks get up in church and say this and knows it is not true), I'm talking the ones who really use and live with God 1st and a Christian, take a script that involves nudity, getting naked, use curse words and or script has massive cussing involved, can take that role and still say I am doing my work? Uh-uh..Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Workouts & Exercise Equipment Infomercials

Keeping It Real: When did it start costing $24.95 or $12.95 to send you some DVDS and a few manuals? Well, that is what you will pay when you CALL into one of the order lines for workouts like P90X, Insanity, Turbo Fire, Hip Hop Abs, Brazil Butt Lift etc, mostly all are by BeachBody Products! 

These infomercials are very misleading to the consumers BUT they stay within FCC & FTC guidelines to reel your ass in! 

You never EVER see overweight people ON THESE commercials using ANY of the products! It is always folks who have used and lost BUT HOW LONG did it take for them to lose? How much did they weigh?

How about having an 350 lb person on there and watch how many programs you sell! They can't do the program in 30 days or 60 days and get great results because it is NOT intended for the obesely overweight folks, same as the exercise equipment is NOT built for overly obese folks, it will not hold them! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Misery

Keeping It Real: I wish misery will find some company and stop trying to befriend me, I have enough friends who keep me company already, so keep it moving, Misery! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Always A Bridesmaid, Never The Bride

Keeping It Real: Stop being a booty call!! Make him RESPECT you before you give up your GOODIES! Make love to my mind first, then the real lovemaking comes into play! Stop cheating too, if he cheats WITH YOU, PLEASE BELIEVE, he will cheat ON YOU TOO! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: All The Single Ladies & Boaz

Keeping It Real: For all you single ladies who are in such a hurry to get married, here's a quick piece of Biblical advice: Ruth patiently waited for her mate Boaz. While waiting on YOUR Boaz, don't settle for ANY of his relatives: Brokeaz, Poaz, Lyinaz, Cheatinaz, Dumbaz, Cheapaz, Lockedupaz, Goodfornothinaz, Lazyaz or Marriedaz & especially his third cousin Beatinyoaz. Please, wait on your Mr. Rightaz & make sure he respects Yoaz. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Misbehaved Children Begins With Storybooks

Keeping It Real: How do you expect children to listen when Tarzan lives half naked, Cinderella comes home at midnight, Pinocchio lies all the time, Aladdin is the king of thieves, Batman drives at 200mph, Sleeping Beauty is lazy, Snow White lives with 7 guys, Goldilocks is a burglar & thief, Lil' Red Riding Hood is walking through woods alone & Rapunzel was letting men climb in her window ? We shouldn't be surprised when children misbehave - they get it from their storybooks! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Talking About People Who Have Passed

Keeping It Real: Why is that whenever a person says, I'm not trying to speak ill of the dead BUT, then dig that person up, eulogize, give them another funeral and then re-bury them with negative shit? Wouldn't that be called, "speaking ill of the dead"? Hmmmpf... Ya Dig?..