Lesson Of The Day: Big Lottery Winner

Keeping It Real: Why do BIG TIME many millions they just won lottery winners always say, their life will not change? I say HOGWASH!! Why wouldn't it? You go from living from paycheck to paycheck to millions of $$$$ and you think your life & lifestyle will not change? Yeah right, after all the relatives come out of the woodwork, even some claiming they are related and you know damn well, they are not, WILL MAKE YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE THEN!!! Just saying.. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Heterosexual and Homosexual

Keeping It Real: If you are a straight man or woman, can you hang out with "gay" people? Is it unheard of? They always say, birds of a feather, flock together! Is that true? Is it possible for a a totally straight man to hang out and befriend a gay man? Same for a woman with a lesbian? I say, anything is possible and if you can get by the people with small minds, regardless of what they may think, how they may react, what they may say, you being secure in your own sexuality and stand on your own two feet, I say YES!! Ya Dig?...   

Lesson Of The Day: Love & Hip Hop ATL...

Keeping It Real: WHAT THE HELL???


Has MiMi lost her mind? What she needs to do is get that KNEEGROW to sign that 20% contract and then leave his DOGGISH ASS!! Is she serious? She didn't get from the vibes when they WALKED into club together after ole girl Karlie told her about incident in studio! I didn't see them kiss like Karlie said, but it is OBVIOUS to the audience, they are screwing! When Joseline threw the drink at Stevie, that was the kicker, right there! Have women become so jaded & dumb when they get a man who is getting PAID???


Now Joseline is pregnant, so that means, he was hitting it with NO condom on, now that is nasty and then he played her way to the field of left! LOL She deserved it because, she knew from the get, she ain't nothing but a jumpoff, half ass one at that too!

Where do they find these folks that think they can rap and or sing? Ummmmm Rasheeda is TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DAMN OLD to be trying to rap and the way she punked her husband out, I was sure Ashton Kutcher was going to run from behind the scenes! Seriously!!!! She can't rap and needs to sit her OLD ass down, trying to be young!

This series seems like its going to be a SUMMER SCORCHER BUT on TV, though! Ya Dig?..  

Lesson Of The Day: Chicagolicious Show..

Keeping It Real: It's a new show like Jerseylicious on Style network and I must say, AJ, the owner, is crazy for not cutting ties with Valincia! So what?, she has been with the company for over 20 years, she is also HINDERING and destroying the image! She is so damn negative and in my opinion, practically upsets the whole positive being at every venue! She waits til the inopportune time to starts some mess! 

I love MaCray & Austin! Also Niki is cool, Q is too cool, Katrell, glad she has moved on from ex boyfriend! How do you break up BUT still live together?! Explain, PLEASE!! Now Howard is a FINE something, he is cute as hell! This show is really good, y'all but again, I say, Valincia MUST GO!! Ya Dig?.. 

Lesson Of The Day: PayDay Loans...

Keeping It Real: I wrote a song about it, y'all wanna hear it, here it go:  

I went to get a payday loan, where the money is mighty fine. They give you $500, they charge you back $5999. Gee, y'all, I got a loan, now they won't leave me alone, they keep on calling my phone, talking about taking my home, because I didnt pay back the damn OVER CHARGE ME loan!!! LOL Ya Dig?..

 

Lesson Of The Day: Your Past...

Keeping It Real:  Once you realize your past is just a story, it has no power over you. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Praying...

Keeping It Real: Each and everyone of us are going through some type of trial or tough times right now! What people fail to realize is that Praying is powerful! Prayers are one of the best gifts we can receive and give! There is no cost but LOTS of rewards! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Check THEM Out...

Keeping It Real: Before you have baby with a person, get married and or date somebody, CHECK THE FAMILY OUT!! It is always safe to assume, if the whole family is crazy, your child MIGHT pick up the traits! If the family is trifling, just remember, you WILL have to deal with them! Bullshit on the I "married him/her and not the family, UMMMM yes you did!! When you say I do, move in together, have a baby, and the person has any immediate family, THEY WILL BECOME PART OF YOU ALL LIVES TOO!! Ya Dig?..   

Lesson Of The Day: Get The Funk Outta My Face..

Keeping It Real: Common Sense is like deodorant, those that NEED it the MOST, don't USE it! Ya Dig?.

Lesson Of The Day: Never Settle...

Keeping It Real: Never be someone's something when you can be someone's everything...Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: It Ain't Tricking, If Ya Got It..

Keeping It Real: REALLY?????? What would you call it then? A FOOL spending his money foolishly! Mmmmm Hmmmmm Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Hollywood Exes TV Show...

Keeping It Real: I BLOGGED about this recently, I knew it was coming! All I have to say is, WHAT TOOK YOU ALL SO LONG? LOL Eddie Murphy's ex and R. Child Molester Kelly's ex too...mmmmm hmmmmmm and the saga will unfold... Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Friendships & Relationships..

Keeping It Real: Time to evaluate your relationships and or friendships to see if they are making you, better as a person! Stop wasting your time in a relationship that has no value or substance. You need to ask yourself, am I becoming a better me, around this person?, or are they becoming a better them around me? In other words, they are reaping the benefits but yet it is not adding anything to your life! Ya Dig?.. 

Happy Father's Day, Dad...

You taught me how to fish, cook, read & know the Bible! You also taught me how to be an independent woman!! Thanks Dad, I love you with all my heart! Happy Father's Day...

Lesson Of The Day: Happy Father's Day...

Keeping It Real: To all the Fathers, Ms. Dads & Anyone who has taken on the role as a Father..Happy Father's Day! Enjoy your day....Ya Dig?.

Lesson Of The Day: Love...

Keeping It Real: Love is a beautiful thing, being in love is a wonderful thing BUT to be loved is a beautiful, wonderful & fabulous thing! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Basketball Wives Reunion..

Keeping It Real: I am so glad Jennifer & Evelyn got it together BUT I always knew they would! Who lets 15 years of friendship go to the wayside over a Blog entry THAT WAS TRUE?!! Evelyn was whorish in the 1st couple of seasons and Chad is a womanizer, hell, it showed it on the show with their little talk about his female friends!


I really believe Suzy didn't tell Tami BUT SHE TALKS SO DAMN MUCH, folks do not believe her! She grew some courage by raising her voice on the show, OH YEAH, she was talking to the smallest person on the show, Kesha!! LOL Kesha, kinda grew some courage too BUT I really believe, she will not be back for a 2nd season! I agree, she was bullied, I do not care how Shaunie or Tami tried to sugarcoat it, Tami BULLIED HER!!!

Shaunie tried to say BLOGGERS don't know the REAL DEAL as far as their lives go, HELL, we are NOT behind the scenes, we can only BLOG ABOUT what we SEE!! She, being one of the executive producers, should have shed a better light on the situation! Do she really believe, the women, are going to ACT RIGHT in the next season? HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL to the NO!!! Why does she think folks tune in to watch, strictly for the drama! Shit, we can see other aspects of their lives, on the internet, mags...we want the dirty!!


I want to see how Jen will treat Kenya, once she and Eve get it back together!! Kenya was going to stomp a mud hole in Eve, I think she wanted her to jump bad at that table or the reunion! I think, Eve got the vibe, especially, when they were in Tahiti, because, the way Kenya was looking, Eve would usually have a snide remark, NOT THIS TIME!!!


Anyways, love the show, looking forward to next season! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Be Happy...

Keeping It Real: People who are mad about their lives won't be happy about yours! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Cancer Commercials..

Keeping It Real: It never fails, dammit, whenever one of the commercials come on with Cancer stricken people, I'm always smoking a damn cigarette! ALWAYS!!!  


I feel bad for these people, I really do but if a person wants to quit smoking, they WILL, if they don't, they WON'T!! No commercial, movie, film, talking or anything else will change a person's views on a HABIT!!! I know, whenever they come on, I CHANGE the channel until I think it has gone off, simple as that! SEE!!!


My Uncle died from Cancer and NEVER SMOKED A DAY IN HIS LIFE, so, explain that! I feel, we are all going to die from something, be it cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, obesity, natural cause, SOMETHING! Ya Dig?....

Lesson Of The Day: When God Said...

Keeping It Real: I just shake my head at some of the stats/comments/posts made on these social network sites! Makes me think when God said He was giving you a brain, you thought He said change lanes and move into the dumb lane! When He said, I'll make you smart, you thought He told you to fart & rip a stanky one, so God stepped away! When He said, I'll make you intelligent, you thought He said, go and Repent and went to confession! When He said, HOE, He really did BUT He was talking about garden hoe, not you becoming one! When He said, I'll make you bright, you thought He asked for a light and pulled out your cigarette lighter!
 
Some folks need to use the LITTLE BRAIN they have when commenting and posting on social network sites! Unreal and unbelievable what some folks will post! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Decisions...

Keeping It Real: Don't allow a temporary situation, cause you to make a permanent decision.  Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Angels...

Keeping It Real: Angels are made from God's Good Grace & Heaven but the Word of Our Heavenly Father tells us, that there are Angels unaware! We never know when one of God's Precious Angels may be standing right beside us! Jesus, only, sits at the right side of God but I am sure His Angels glow in His Love & Light! Amen...Ya Dig?....

Lesson Of The Day: Spewed Food/Spit

Keeping It Real: When you are sitting across from a person and they are talking while they are eating and you see some food and or spit come flying from their mouth, AT YOU, do you duck & dodge or do you just let it hit you?


I duck & dodge and then say, please, don't talk with food in your mouth! Just saying..Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Really, What & Huh???

Keeping It Real: Whenever I hear a person say, believe me, you..I think of my mother and often wonder what in the hell does that mean? I hear so many elder, Black people saying that from the South but I heard a White lady on TV last night say this same thing and made me think of my Mother and why would a person say, believe me, you? Can someone please explain to a 53yr old, what in the hell, believe me, you, mean? Ya Dig?

Happy 2nd Anniversary To My Son & Daughter-In-Law

Singing ★¸.•*¨*•.✰Happy Anniversary to my son Donte & daughter-in-law Diesha¸.•*¨`*•..¸★ Enjoy your day!! 2nd and still counting, Love y'all ¨`*•..¸★

 

Lesson Of The Day: The Other Woman...

Keeping It Real: Ladies, when you date a married man or a man that is taken, YOU ARE NOT HIS WOMAN & HE IS NOT YOUR MAN!!! If he has to sneak around with you, hide you from people, make you scoot down, in the car, when he sees a person that may know his wife/woman, can't take you out locally, can''t spend any holidays with you MAKES HIM NOT YOUR MAN!!!

I do not understand how women can claim another woman's man as hers ESPECIALLY if she knows about said woman at ANY time during her time with said man! It just baffles me!

I'm not saying to NOT date a married man, because I have been there, done that AND HATED IT and never said he was my man, FRIEND, YES, man, hell to the no! Because of the reasons, I listed above made me know, dating a married man or a man who is taken was not my cup of tea!

And please believe, if he has been with her for more than 5 years, YOU GETTING HIM TO LEAVE, is almost next to impossible! He may hee and haw around leaving her, BUT TRUST, uh-uh, it ain't happening, captain! Ya Dig?..   

Lesson Of The Day: Liars...

Keeping It Real: Why LIE when the truth is so much easier to remember? You know when you lie, you have to keep up with who you told the lie too and what you said! My mom used to say, if you will LIE, you will steal and cheat and I so believe that! I feel whenever a person tells a lie, their nose should grow like Pinocchio's. Ya Dig?..   

Lesson Of The Day: Me....

Keeping It Real: Here we are. You are curious and I am hopeful that you will join my blog. Since we can’t make a new friend without first meeting a stranger, allow me to introduce myself. I am the ideal woman. I may not be a lady all the time BUT I'm all woman! I am educated and I have street smarts! I am demanding but extremely generous! I am classy and down to earth! I am sugar and spice with a sense of humor! I am compassionate and patient! I'm a good talker and know how to listen! I'm stable and well balanced but I demand respect and honesty! I'm a rare combination because I'm a homegirl who has intellect and class! Most importantly, I'm a good woman & person! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: OWN Station/Oprah Winfrey

Keeping It Real: I watched the Oprah Show for years when she 1st started coming on ABC! I was in her studio audience on a couple of occasions. One for pregnant women, I was pregnant with my 2nd child and the other, I didn't find out title until I was seated in the audience and it was about troubled relationships and boy was my marriage in trouble at the time! Anyways, her shows became quite stuffy to me after awhile, I don't know if it was because I felt she was catering to the Black women in the beginning but to draw in the masses, she had to change! I quit watching!

Long story short, OWN TV network, which is owned by Oprah has been having rating problems! Mind you, I hadn't watched Oprah in years but I happened to see one of her Life Tour, Next Chapter commercials and I became quite intrigued! I flipped to her channel and Welcome to Sweeties was on! This show is actually really good and based out of St. Louis! I have a sister who lives in STL suburbs and I can't wait to see her and I MUST go to Sweetie Pies! They have a new show coming on with Iyanla and if you know anything about her, she is a MOTIVATOR!!!

I started watching the OWN network and am quite pleased with the shows that air on this station! All I'm saying is that yea, her ratings NEED BOOSTING which I am quite surprised being she is Oprah and BLACK!! Where is the LOVE from her own PEOPLE!! If this was Bravo, VH1, MTV or Oxygen, we would be all over it! UNREAL

Thing is, I say, if you need to learn, maybe her network can teach you! If you are sad, maybe her network can bring some joy & happiness when you least expect it! If you need help in overcoming obstacles, maybe her network can help you conquer them! If you are in the dark about things, maybe her network can help to enlighten you! If you are puzzled, maybe her network can help you find the missing piece! Sometimes that pot of gold you are looking for can be found right on your TV station! Ya Dig?..  

Lesson Of The Day: Christians & So Called Christians..

Keeping It Real: Can CHRISTIANS who judge others so frequently PLEASE remember: CHRIST comprises the word Christian AND condemnation prevents conversion. Christ associated with sinners so they could be converted. Today, you'd probably condemn Him for being around those same people you consider outcasts. He helped sinners. 

Why preach to the choir? They already have the GOOD NEWS!. 

He led with compassion, not hatred. Stop 'picking and choosing' what to obey in the Holy Bible. It is an ALL consuming document. You must read, analyze and adhere to it ALL. While trying to get the lint out of someone else eye, you may be missing the entire piece of cloth in your own. 

While you may disagree with someone's lifestyle choices, don't dislike them for it. Love them in spite of their choices, Jesus loves us in spite of ours. Stop hating, some people hated CHRIST, so HATRED is not part of the Christian philosophy. 

I am not condoning or condemning anybody but I am sending them God's love as I am supposed to, as He did and does to us daily. 

Christians, remember who you represent, less you be mistaken for an enemy of God instead of His follower.....Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Blessing In Disguise...

Keeping It Real: If you gamble, I mean like Lotto or Casinos and you hit BIG, wouldn't that be called a Blessing in disguise? Some folks may say, it is the devil's work BUT I say, if it was more than you had and you really needed it, disguised Blessing! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Entrapment From A Child...

Keeping It Real: Back in the day, when my son was like 11 years old, he was walking from baseball practice and ran into one of his friends, who was in the car with his mother! She had stopped by a friend's house and they were sitting in the car, smoking weed with the children in the car! My son who had never smelled weed before, because it was around them BUT IT WASN'T, feel me? I smoked it but it was behind closed doors with incense burning, so they didn't know! Anyways, he walked upon the car and smelled it and asked, "what is that awful smell"? The mother replied, "BUD"!!!! He said, "what's bud"? She said, go ask your mother, she SMOKES IT!!!

My son comes homes and says "Ma, what's BUD"? , and the way he said it and looked made me KNOW he wasn't asking about no damn rosebud or man's name! OK!!!  So I say, bud can be a flower that is about to bloom, he said NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, LOL! I said, well, Bud can be a man's name! LOL He said, I'm talking about the bud that smells bad and people smoke it!! *blank stare* and then OH, that BUD!! I said it is marijuana or weed as they call it! He goes, "so you smoke marijuana"? I was like, what the hell, HUH? Then he tells me the story and BOY WAS I PISSED!


I put my fighting clothes on and go over to ole girl's house and she saw me pulling up, because she was sitting on her porch and before I could even get out of my car, she was at my car door apologizing out of her ass! I'm so sorry, I shouldn't have said it but I thought he knew! I asked her, how in the hell did you think he knew, if he asked you what the hell it was? I tell her, everything shouldn't be said or done in front of children, especially if it's not the right thing, you are doing. 

Anyways, I plead entrapment by a child! Ya Dig?...