Lesson Of The Day: Respect Yourself...

Keeping It Real: You have to appreciate yourself and meet your own requirements, before expecting others to understand your ultimatums! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Brokenhearted....

Keeping It Real: Dear Ladies and Gents with a broken heart, there are guys and gals out there with glue guns! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Men...

Keeping It Real: For all those men who say, Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free? Here's an update for you: Nowadays, 80% of women are against marriage, WHY? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage.


1. Men are like Laxatives, they irritate the crap out of you.
2  Men are like Bananas, the older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like Weather, nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like Blenders, you need one, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like Chocolate Bars, sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like Commercials, you can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like Department Stores, their clothes are always 1/2 off!
8. Men are like Government Bonds, they take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like Mascara, they usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like Popcorn, they satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like Snowstorms, you never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like Lava Lamps, fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like Parking Spots, all the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: He Woke Me Up...

Keeping It Real: The Lord is Blessing me, right now, ohhhhhh right now! He woke me up this morning and He started me on my way, The Lord is Blessing me right now! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Breast Cancer Exams...

Keeping It Real: Breast cancer doesn't discriminate by age or race and neither does early detection. Take control by creating your early detection plan! http://social.olay.com/eii

Lesson Of The Day: Presidential Debate....

Keeping It Real: I just read about America's Most misLEADing man, Mr. Etch A Sketch, Mr. Flip Flopper. He is not anti choice or pro choice, he is multiple choice! LOL GOOD OLE MITT DUMBney, er rah, I mean, ROTney, oh damn, what is that idiot's last name?!!

I can't figure out how people think Romney won!! If this debate was based on the most aggressive, hands down, he won! But he lost on substance!! How can you say you will create 12 million jobs, but not say how? Instead of saying what you would you put in place, if you repealed "ObamaCare" you say your plan is too lengthy so you can't discuss it, BUT it's ONLY 397 WORDS. 

President Obama, was  the way that he has ALWAYS been, Poised, Likable & Intelligent. He didn't need to put on a performance to show the people who is the better man! 

You know it doesn't matter who won the debate, even though they both did well! What matters is who will win the election. EVERYONE needs to go out and vote next month. If you don't vote, then don't complain! 

And please pay attention to the messenger who delivers you the message..Ya Dig?...

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Lesson Of The Day: Ya Understand?...

Keeping It Real: If you leave without a reason, don't come back with an excuse. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: But Do You Go To Church?...

Keeping It Real: It's really easy to sit on Twitter, Facebook, Myspace or any social network site and post comments, share pictures you found about God & Church, BUT do you go? Some folks think because they say it, post it, share it or even comment on it, they are safe! NOT!!!!!

Then we have the ones that bargain with God, I stopped cursing, so now I can fornicate, I stopped drinking, so now I can smoke weed! If you do this for me God, I will stop doing such and such and go to church! I know, *been there and have done it*!!! 

I come from a church background, father and several brothers are ordained ministers! Raised in and under the church and as an adult, I still go to church!  My thing is, I see so many folks posting on these social sites about how they have stopped doing such and such and God is 1st in their lives but yet, they are still doing things, that are considered a sin! Just because you stopped smoking, doesn't mean you can drink and just because you stopped cursing, doesn't mean you can have sex! You do not trade one sin for another!

I am not a Bible toting person. I drink, curse, have sex and smoke but I do NOT under any circumstances, use God as a CRUTCH!!! I know I am a sinner! 

If you're going to walk it, walk the walk and if you're going to talk about it all the time, talk the talk! Don't just speak about it, BE ABOUT IT! God knows your heart, but He also sees and knows what you do. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Kill 'Em With Kindness..

Keeping It Real: Kindness, class & joy kills the enemy! Our enemy constantly reminds us how fabulous we are by their ignorant behavior. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: It's All About Me...

Keeping It Real: Yes, I love me, and I refuse to be your 2nd choice, your option or your around the town girl. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: God's Will...

Keeping It Real: When you are down, feeling all out of sorts and things have gotten insanely and stupidly out of control, I encourage you to look to the sky, get on your knees and Pray!!! 

 

God is always present during our storms! We may feel lost and abandon but we are not!!! Talk to Him! Cry unto Him and let Him know, what your heart is feeling and its desires! 

 

When we are going through a storm, God may not give you exactly what you want, may not even give you what you need and it could be the worst storm, you may ever battle but God will give you the STRENGTH to ride that storm through! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Completely...

Keeping It Real: You don't need someone to complete you, you just need someone to accept you completely! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Claiming It...

Keeping It Real: The things you say and do, if not true, will COME to light! Some will pass and other times, He gives ya what you are asking for! Do not speak or do things into existence!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: What If...

Keeping It Real: Don't let the should've, could've & would've determine your cans, mights & wills of your life! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Chrissy And Mr. Jones TV Show..

Keeping It Real: Hmmmmmmmmmmm, I knew when Jim gave Chrissy that ring, IT WAS FOR SHOW!! He knew she was tired of his shit and was moving on to BIGGER & BETTER THINGS!!

Right now, Jim is jocking on Chrissy's coattail because he has TRULY falling off! What "gangsta" rapper makes a TV reality series? JIM, because he needs the money!

Just from the 1st episode, because all eyes are on them, no more distractions from crew members, this show is ALL ABOUT THEM and it shows Jim, NOT being totally enthused with helping Chrissy do anything! She got the RING but at her own expense!

And Momma Jones is crazy as ever! How can you diss the very person who helped you make the video and song? UNfuckingREAL!!!

Stay tuned, this series looks to be interesting!! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Facebook Changes How People Socialize..

Keeping It Real: Mark Zuckerberg revolutionized the world with a singular dot-com site! His website has taken over people's daily lives! Slowly but surely, Facebook has grown into an internet commodity that individuals can't live without! You can like a product, post or comment, share an article or link a video!

It is constantly changing. FB is always looking for ways to "so-call" improve their product! The new timeline is an atrocity! Revealing more info than people care to share even with friends! Automatically releasing your phone numbers, your location when you post and if you do not take the initiative to set your own privacy settings, the site sets it at default, which is PUBLIC VIEW!!

The site does have its good and bad faults, good ones are bringing people closer, reconnecting with old friends, meeting new and interesting folks, staying in contact with loved ones who are away but the bad side is the cyber bullying, pedophiles in disguise under a fake profile. They have the luxury of hiding behind their profile picture and they taunt, tease, torment, get mean and nasty and some even get COURAGE, they never had!

FB broadcasts your thoughts, personal info and pictures to a wide audience! It is becoming more and more commonplace for potential employers and colleges to look at your FB profile! Don't be one of the those people who post regrettable shit, it may come back and bite you in the ass.

Life with FB is becoming a way of life and to stay connected! It will continue to transform our society. How many people have you met or reconnected back with that hasn't said, "Add me on Facebook"! Ya Dig?...              

Lesson Of The Day: Eye On The Prize....

Keeping It Real: Some people laugh, while some cry. Some prosper, while some barely get by. Some people are in the pen, while others don't have a pot to pee in. Some people beg every single day, while others say, "Today just ain't my day." Some people love to sin, while others repent, and say, "CHRIST lives within." Some people say, "I'm not ready to come to CHRIST," while others say, "The LORD gives me sight." Through all of life's ups and downs, GOD don't want us to complain nor frown. For many are called, however some go astray, while the few stand tall, and do things GOD'S WAY. For Heaven is our prize, that only a few will see, while others will kneel in distress, and cry out, "What about ME?"Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Thanks Father..

Keeping It Real: Thank you Father for being all that You are to me! I will never find anyone to be as good to me as You are! I love You! In Jesus' Name..Amen Ya Dig?..

Good Luck Idris Elba At The Emmys...

Love you man and wishing you much success! :)

 

 

 

 

 

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Lesson Of The Day: MySELF...

Keeping It Real: Today, I will govern mySELF, forgive mySELF, acknowledge mySELF, advise mySELF, applaud mySELF, believe in mySELF and enjoy mySELF. TRUTH be told, I'm the one in charge of fully loving mySELF! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Romney & Ryan Out Of Touch...

Keeping It Real: Let's see, we have the wealthy son of a CEO/Governor who has a problem at every turn being perceived as "out of touch" with ordinary Americans and his solutions to this problem is to choose the Ayn Rand-worshipping descendant of a wealthy, influential family of one of the nation's largest land development as his running mate!! HA!!!

They're going up against someone who was raised by a poor single mother and his middle-class grandparents, who also passed up a lucrative career in the private sector to talk around unhappy, upset and angry neighborhoods, help poor people to achieve a better living, get and help them to register to vote! He in turn chooses a working-class man who actually rode the train to and from Washington when he was Senator!   

Yeah, folks, Mitt Romney and Paul Ryan are really going to be looking out for your best interests and benefits as long as you don't fall into that 47%!!! Ya Dig?..

   

Lesson Of The Day: God And Your Looks...

Keeping It Real: God don't like ugly, not particular about pretty, ain't fond of cute, His wine is not fine, gorgeous is applied to the landscapes He created, good is applied to the food He eats, when the number 10 is mentioned, it's because He has counted His toes and fingers! Looks does not matter to God because beauty is only skin deep in His eyes! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Do You...

Keeping It Real: Life never seems to be the way we want it, but we live it in the best way we can. There's no perfect life but we can fill it with perfect moments. Place God first in all you do. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: I Want To Be Free...

Keeping It Real: You are not free until you get to the point where you have nothing to prove and aren't trying to impress anybody. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: My Life, My Life...

Keeping It Real: In my life, I've lived, loved, lost, missed out, gotten hurt, trusted and made mistakes but most of all, I've learned...Ya Dig?.

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Lesson Of The Day: Heaven...

Keeping It Real: Heaven is not just a place you go to but a place you grow to and this is not new to me, it grew to me! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Woman/Man In The Mirror..

Keeping It Real: Many people have ideas on how others should change, but few people have ideas on how they should change themselves.Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Respect...

Keeping It Real: When you've "EARNED" your respect and still not receiving your dues, then it is time to "DEMAND" your respect! Ya Dig?..  

Lesson Of The Day: The Other Woman..

Keeping It Real: Females, lets be clear and REAL, a man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman, he's cheating with you because you aren't good enough to be THE WOMAN. I laugh at women that brag about being the "go to" woman when the man gets bored at home, & you try to put down a submissive woman for being who God designed her to be. Learn what submission really means. 

A submissive woman is far from weak, because a true submissive woman knows how to carry the load for him and her both without him even having to know it. She knows how to speak to his spirit & not his lusts. She knows how to push him to his dreams instead of pulling him to destruction. She knows how to pray with him and not play with him. She knows how to be quiet even when her flesh wants to speak. She knows the value of his hard work & not just his dollar. A submissive woman is his "LIFETIME" but you are just a "GOOD TIME"...and that's all you will ever be. 

He knows that he can throw a few dollars & material possessions your way & that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man, the submissive woman makes it easy for herself by making him EARN & not buy her. 

 

You are the O.T.H.E.R. woman...an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases. Ya Dig?..