Lesson Of The Day: Duh, Ya Think?...

Keeping It Real: When your ex says "You will never find anyone like me".....reply with, Uhhhhh"That's the point"! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Forms Of Transportation..

Keeping It Real: There is walking, cars, trains, boats, planes, bicycles, motorcycles, scooters, buses, trucks BUT Dick-Riding has never been a form of transportation...that shit will get you no where & take you no where fast! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: You....

Keeping It Real: Do all the good You can,
by all the means You can, in all the ways You can, in all the places You can, to all the people You can, as long as You ever can. You don’t need anyone else permission to be happy.Your Life is Magnificent not because someone says it is,

but because You choose to see it as such. Ya Dig?....

Lesson Of The Day: Happy Memorial Day

Keeping It Real: It is not National BBQ Day, it is a day to honor our servicemen & women who have given their all to protect us! Also in remembrance of loved ones that have gone Home! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Faith...

Keeping It Real: Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Do You...

Keeping It Real: Being unmarried is not a reason to delay your Life goals! If you want to have a baby, buy a house, buy a diamond ring, make your next BIG move--DO YOU!, Prince Charming and or Mr. Right can play catchup! Start where you are, use what you have and do what you can! Stop beating yourself up! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Gossiping....

Keeping It Real: The person who gossips with you, may gossip ABOUT you too! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Good, Good Girlfriend...

 Keeping It Real: The basis of a true friendship is "chemistry" between two women who mutually like, trust, admire and "get" one another. TRUTH is, if it takes too much effort and you're always in "apology mode" or wondering why she said that, then it safe to say you're probably not friends! When you're feeling like a pebble and need a Rock to lean on,  make sure it's a 3G! Good, Good Girlfriend! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives

Keeping It Real: I want to say 1st of all, people are saying Tami "PUNKED" Kesha out, NOPE, she didn't, that was STRAIGHT UP BULLYING!!!!! I believe every woman on the show 'cept Royce is afraid of Tami. How can Shaunie as an executive producer allow Tami to just bully the women? That was some straight up bullshit the way she treated Kesha! and then tries and justify it by saying, she was doing her a favor by getting her property! PLEASE!!! Shaunie asked her before they even left the bar, what was she going to do with her articles? She could have let Evelyn, Suzy or Shaunie grab her stuff, why would she grab it, knowing they just had a big blowout and she was the reason she left the bar? I mean, not one women came to Kesha's defense, yeah Shaunie tried to say something AFTER she left but it wasn't said with force, like she was just play asking! UNFUCKINGREAL!!!! 

Tami, regardless of how you try and sugarcoat the fact that you disrespected the woman by saying she didn't LOOK like a Kesha, she is BLACK!!!! You don't think you owe her an apology for that! That wasn't punking somebody, you did what BULLIES do everyday!! and the shit she said, was after you ATTACKED her verbally, the 1st time! 

Suzy needs her 2 faced talk so much ass WHIPPED!!! How do you go to Kesha and try to make her say sorry just to get HER property? Suzy started all this drama with her BIG ASS MOUTH!!!


Evelyn's fake ass apologized to Kenya but didn't tell her she had loaded her room down with stanking ass fish, if you were sincere with your apology, that should have been said as well! I think, Kenya was waiting for Evelyn to jump out of a bag, DID Y'ALL SEE THE WAY SHE WAS LOOKING? Kenya was getting ready to give her the beating of her life!! She was going to spank that ass!! 

Jen has done some DIRTY SNEAKY shit is why she keeps leaving, Evelyn wants everybody to KNOW, Jen is not sweet, innocent Jen as we see her! Mmmm hmmmmm Ya Dig?.. 

Lesson Of The Day: Personal Hygiene..

Keeping It Real: How many of you taught your sons & daughters about personal hygiene when they were young?  How old is too young to teach? I say, when they start using the potty, THAT WOULD BE A GOOD TIME!! Teach them to wash their hands after EVERY use, wash their face, brush their teeth EVERYDAY, bath or shower EVERY DAY and females, please teach your daughter to change her underwear everyday! Not to go to store or outside the house without taking care of hygiene


I have some GROWN friends who do not even think to wash their hands UNLESS TOLD!! You can't use my bathroom and not wash your hands and think you are going to stay in my house and spread them nasty germs around, uh-uh, don't think so! I will tell you and don't care if your feeling get hurt! YOU are grown and should know to wash your hands after every use! That is just plain ole nasty and if I have to tell you, to wash your hands, you can best believe, I will, never, ever eat any of cooking! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Back Itch...

Keeping It Real: Is it me?, or does everybody get this sexual sensation , moans & squeals of delight, even  say, YES, RIGHT THERE!!! when getting their back scratched? It feels so good! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: I'll Say A Lil' Prayer For You..

Keeping It Real: Dear Jesus, Heavenly Father..I come before You and Pray that You will Bless whomever reads this post Spiritually, Physically & Financially! Please Dear Lord, Bless them so they make good choices in their life! I Pray that You make good changes in their life and give them the desires of their heart so they can move forward with ease! I Pray over & ask that You Bless them in Your Holy Name! In Your Son's Jesus Christ name, I Pray! Amen...Ya Dig?!!

Lesson Of The Day: Mitt Romney's Bullying..

Keeping It Real: Every once in a while a story comes along that captures a candidate and what he represents. And The Washington Post just did that by revealing a dark incident from Mitt Romney's past.

At 18, he led a group of boys who hunted down younger student John Lauber because he seemed gay to them. They held Lauber down, screaming and crying, while Romney cut off his dyed-blonde hair. It's something that haunted Lauber and those who participated in his assault decades later.

But Romney laughed it off in a radio interview last week. And the right-wing media is pushing the Romney campaign's spin that this bullying story is nothing.

Romney's right that this election isn't about what happened 48 years ago. It's about the man who, in business, picked on struggling companies, fired their workers, pocketed the profits, and then dumped the companies back out riddled with debt.

It's about a man whose policies would take from those struggling in a tough economy, to give to those on top. Because after 48 years one thing hasn't changed for Romney: there are people who count and people who don't, like young John Lauber, or the 99% of us who get beat up by Romney's policies. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Small Moments...

Keeping It Real: We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments, but GREAT moments OFTEN catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small moment! Embrace every moment as if it is your last! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: God's Special Children

Keeping It Real: My granddaughter Ashyla and I were watching TV and they had a mentally retarded/challenged child on a program! She asks, "what is wrong with him?" I told her, sometimes God makes children extra special, giving them stardom at birth, so they can be noticed right away! She says, "what about me?, I want to be special"! I said, you want to be a SuperModel, which means, you are going to have to work and earn your stardom. It doesn't mean God loves you any less, it just means He KNOWS who will be strong & who needs that extra special attention when they are born! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Best Parental Gift To A Child

Keeping It Real: The best gift a Parent could ever give their child is eternal life, introduce them to Christ, take them to Church, read them the Bible and give them the option of a Great Life! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Praise Dancing

Keeping It Real: I am writing today's lesson to educate one of my Facebook friends on what Praise Dancing is all about!! She made a thread with a picture posted of a young woman Praise Dancing. She said and I quote: "See this humiliating foolishness right here? Yet another reason why I can't enter the church doors", end quote! HUH?


One of HER friends asked, what's wrong with it? and she said You tell me, I don't get or understand it!!


My question is: HOW IN THE HELL can you call it humiliating foolishness and NOT know what it is? She then went on and explained & I quote again: "I wasn't raised in the church, but when I was young and attended on occasion, this form of expression didn't exist. It just reminds me of Big Daddy Kane and other old school rappers that decided to add dancers to their repertoire...quite unnecessary and something I have to pass on." end quote!! So she doesn't know what it is, PROBABLY haven't been to a church for SERVICES since Skippy was a puppy, in other words, it is safe to ASSUME, last time she went was when she was a child!! and then say, this is one of the reasons, why I can't enter the church doors!! It's not like she is an Atheist or don't believe, because numerous times, I have seen her post AMEN or please say a Prayer for me!

I found her thread & statement to be offensive to ALL Praise Dancers and then comparing them to VIDEO DANCERS!!! One of her friends commented, which I agree wholeheartedly with and said: 
Dancing for the Lord is nothing new and it is biblical. Amen...

People have been dancing with and for the Lord for YEARS!! and if she can take a picture of a woman Praise Dancing and sum it up as VIDEO HOOCHING dancing, all I can say is, SHE NEEDS JESUS & CHURCH IN HER LIFE, like yesterday!!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Dont Cha' Just Hate It When...

Keeping It Real: You are talking to a person and then a few minutes later, you check in the mirror and there is bread or some type of food stuck in your teeth and you wonder, damn, was that there when I was talking? Also, when your eyes have those that white stuff in the corner, or when you have a booger hanging from your nose, what about your hair is standing up and it never fails to happen when you are talking with a man/woman you might be interested in! Ya Dig?.. 

Happy Mother's Day, Cora B. Foster R.I.P.

My mother was a beautiful woman, Mother, cook & a great teacher. She taught me humility, patience, kindness, compassion, understanding, how to cook AND NOT TO TAKE ANY SHIT!!. She taught me that all people, no matter what their circumstances were, HAD value. She taught me to stand up for what I believed in - to be a strong woman. She taught me to take an interest in the world around me and to be involved. Say what I mean and mean what I say.

Although she is gone, she is always on my shoulder, reminding me of all those lessons - I miss her every day. R.I.P. Mother, I love and miss you so much!! Happy Mother's Day!!!

Lesson Of The Day: Happy Mother's Day....

Keeping It Real: To all the Mothers, Mr. Moms & Anyone who has taken on the role as a Mother..Happy Mother's Day! Enjoy your day..Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: A Phenomenal Woman

Keeping It Real: "One thing we don't 'need' is the approval of others! At age 21 we're adult; by 30 we've done a few things; by 40 we've come into our own & at 50 we don't care what anyone thinks! A Phenomenal Woman approves of herself!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Dear God, Just Wanted To Let You Know...

Keeping It Real: Good morning Father GOD...Father GOD, I just want to thank you for all of the things you have done for me and all of the things you have brought me thru. If it wasn't for YOU, there would be no me. YOU carried me when I could not stand, YOU fed me when I was hungry, YOU loved me when I didn't even love myself. YOU have been my salvation and my life. I love and honor YOU today and everyday of my life. I am so Blessed that YOU chose to continue to love me even though I have sinned in YOUR eyes. YOU have forgiven me so many times and I am thankful. I LOVE you Father GOD. Thank YOU for all Your Blessings and YOUR love. Just wanted YOU to know that. Amen. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: I Love Everybody...

Keeping It Real: Some I love to be around, some I love to avoid and some I love to punch in the face! So love everybody, Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Are They Serious?...

Keeping It Real: Why should folks boycott Arizona Ice Tea & Skittles because Trayvon was carrying them, when he was gunned down? Explain PLEASE??? 

What does the companies have to do with him being murdered? 

He was wearing a hoodie, why shouldn't we boycott them too? Instead they used a piece of garment that he was wearing as a symbol of young Black boys being murdered because they wear them! Again, I ask, why wasn't the hoodie company being BLASTED as well? What about the cell phone he was on?, shouldn't they be boycotted too? The shoes & underwear he was wearing, them too!!

Dumb right?, my point exactly, why should these companies be held accountable for another person's actions & mistakes? Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Uprising La Riots, Watts Riot & HipHop...

Keeping It Real: 1st of all, I want to know what the hell does HipHop have to do with the riots? I don't think that word even existed when the Watts riot came about! I know, Watts riot is not listed in the TV show title, but when it aired, they sure referenced it during the show!

2ndly, why in the happy hell would these FOOLS DESTROY their own neighborhood?! I do not CONDONE violence but since they decided to riot, WHY???? They burned up all the lil mom & pop stores and then hit some BIG stores in their OWN AREA!!!  So when all the fires burned out and all the excitement of STEALING from "mostly" your OWN PEEPS died down, HOW FAR DID THEY HAVE TO TRAVEL TO SHOP???  Unfuckingreal!!!


Was it me or did the fire trucks and police abort ALL HELP until their shit burned to the ground? Same as Watts riot, NO DIFFERENCE!! Didn't the fools learn from that experience, that you do not destroy your own??  Some of them looters & rioters PUT THE "D" on dumb! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Through The Storms

Keeping It Real: When the storms in life come, focus on the many other blessings in your life. Also, think about the many times you thought everything was falling apart, but somehow you made it through. It’s never the end unless you give up and stop fighting. No matter what you go through your joy is worth the fight. Life is too short to let anything or anyone steal your joy. SN: The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain. Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: In Everything We Should Give Thanks...

Keeping It Real: For waking up, each breath you take, your sight, to hear, talk, walk, your job, your home, your car..well, EVERYTHING!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Fan vs Groupie

Keeping It Real: Scene...


Celeb: Pay for this meal and I will pay you back later.
Groupie: Ok...hehehehehe
Fan: Ummmm, you better pull that wallet out with the credit card & take care of this purchase! I think you have more than me! Please..

Celeb: I don't give oral sex but I like having it done!
Groupie: *drop to knees*...LOL
Fan: No do me, I no do you!! OK!!!


Celeb: I want a threesome, if you won't do it, I'll get somebody else 
Groupie: (even if she doesn't get down like that) OK!!!
Fan: Putting back on clothes and saying, you need to start calling somebody ELSE!!!


Celeb: His picture or something he said and has been PROVEN, says, it ain't nothing but haters!
Groupie: Yep, I don't believe that shit!
Fan: You should be more careful and stop doing or saying dumb shit.


Celeb: To an older woman, damn, I know we have been together, but your daughter is fine!
Groupie: Well, she is over 18, so I'll ask her! teehehehehehe
Fan: Boy, have you lost your rabbit ass mind! Get the fuck out of here!!


AND CUT..... 

Don't be groupie, always be a fan! Celebrities are just like REGULAR PEOPLE but PAID! They bleed red, shit stinks, walk, talk, eat, shop and everything else just like regular folks. Would you allow one of your *regular friends* to do that above & get away with it? Take off the blinders! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: 2nd Time Around....

Keeping It Real: You can never make the SAME MISTAKE twice, because the second time you make the same mistake, it's no longer a mistake, it's by choice! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Sun Drop Commercials..

Keeping It Real: Am I the only one, who absolutely love these commercials?!! They couldn't have picked 2 better people to do these because they are funny and they are JAMMING!!!!! You have to watch all 3.......Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Trip Him Up...

Keeping It Real: The next time your man says he was DRUNK when he cheated and wasn't aware of what he was doing, scenario: 

Him: "Baby, I'm sorry, I was drunk!" I didn't know what I was doing!!!
You: I heard that you cheated on me with a man, they are saying it was a man! 
Him: WHAT? That's a motherfucking lie! It wasn't a damn man!!
You: How would you know, you were drunk?
Him: PLEASE, I know what the fuck I did and who I was with!
You: ummmmm didn't you just tell me you were drunk and didn't know what hell you were doing?, but now you can say you know for a fact it wasn't a man because you KNEW what you were doing?
Him: *blank stare* why?, because he is busted!!


AND SCENE......mmmm hmmmmm trip his ass up, that cliche', Blame it on the alcohol is for dummies!! Ya Dig?

R.I.P. Brother On Your 1st Anniversay In Heaven

 

We Love and miss you so much! Love you , Billy, R.I.P.

Lesson Of The Day: Relations With YOURSELF...

Keeping It Real: "I cheated on my FEARS, broke up with my DOUBTS, got engaged with FAITH and now I'm marrying my DREAMS." Mmmm Hmmmm I bet some of you all thought it was about masturbation! LOL Ya Dig?..