Lesson Of The Day: If A Man Wants You....

Keeping It Real: If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserved, then hell no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? 

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 

All men are NOT dogs. 

You should not be the one doing all the bending compromise is a two-way street. 

You need time to heal between relationships there is nothing cute about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals look for someone complimentary not supplementary. 

Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you, sometimes when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. 

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Never make a man your priority while you remain an option! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Paternity....

Keeping It Real: LADIES, when a man tells you, HE IS NOT THE FATHER of your child, please GET HIM TESTED FOR PATERNITY! If he laid down with you and could possibly be the father and he is denying your child, when the judge says, he is, MAKE HIM DIG DEEP, OK!!! 

I say this because over the weekend, I talked with not one but 8 different friends whom daughters had babies by men who are denying their grandchildren and I said, make them pay by going to child support court! They can establish paternity better than him saying in his Maury's voice, I am NOT THE FATHER even though I laid up with your daughter! Unfreakingreal!!!!! 

Please get dude tested!!! and if he still doesn't want to have anything to do with child, FINE, HIS LOSS but make his ASS PAY!!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Turn It Over To Jesus...

Keeping It Real: When God solves your problems, you have Faith in His abilities! When God doesn't solve your problems, He has Faith in YOU!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Old & New Friends...

Keeping It Real: Old friends are gold and new friends are diamonds! If you get a diamond, don't forget the gold because to hold a diamond, yo always need a base of gold!

Lesson Of The Day: Chicagolicious TV Show...

Keeping It Real: This is a very interesting show and again, I say, AJ needs to put Valincia in check! How can he run a business with important clients and events with this heffa' always MAKING A SCENE?!! ALWAYS!!! I understand loyalty & friendship but not at my expense!! That's the card she always play, I'm SENIOR this and that! Just because she has seniority doesn't mean she has to act ignorant and be a clown! Katrell, stop feeding into her b/s..she can't argue by herself!!!


MaCray, ARE YOU SERIOUS? Do you really think your mother doesn't know her son is gay/homosexual? It is so obvious and your mother would have to be blind, stupid & crazy NOT TO KNOW!! I know sometimes, we as parents, put on blinders, but damn!!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Marijuana/Hemp...

Keeping It Real: The number one reason why marijuana is illegal is because the Pharma Cartel does not want you to grow your own medicine. The Declaration of Independence was written on hemp paper. The first car ever made ran on hemp oil. Hemp seeds are also the healthiest food on the planet with the highest protein content out of any plant! Ya Dig?...

http://www.knowledgeoftoday.org/2012/02/expansion-of-consciousness-dmt-spirit.html 

Lesson Of The Day: Tasha Smith's Acting Classes..

Keeping It Real: WHY in the hell is she giving these classes? 1st of all, she can't ACT herself, 2nd, she can't act and 3rd and more importantly, she CAN'T ACT!!!! She should have somebody helping her to become a better actress because everything I have watched her in seems forced, unnatural, no acting skills, so again I ask, why is she giving these fake ass seminars? Shouldn't it be called FAKE CLASSES?? Ya Dig?..  

Lesson Of The Day: Denver, CO Shooting....

Keeping It Real: A valid point was made in the picture below, why in the hell does it have to be that way? Racism thrives so much in the USA and NON Black people are the 1st ones to tell ya, GET OVER IT! How can we get over something, that hasn't even been 1. Acknowledged, 2. No Reparations, 3. No Sincere Apology & 4. We have a damn Black President! So WHO NEEDS TO GET OVER IT!! Mmmmmm Hmmmmm

My condolences to all the families and folks whose family were killed by this mental illness man! No, he didn't do a drive by or blow up a plane, BUT he murdered people like he was a thug terrorist! OK!!!

Lesson Of The Day: Hysterectomy...

Keeping It Real: I don't know who started the rumor that women who have had them, can NO longer function as a woman! That is such bullshit and many women hide the fact they have had one because they are too embarrassed and feel less than a woman after getting it done!

I had one done at the age of 30 because of medical reasons! I woke up one morning and was paralyzed from the waist down, couldn't walk for 2 days and found out I had endometriosis. It had started dissolving the muscles in my back which led to me be paralyzed! I had to have one or face not being able to walk! I chose the surgery and me as well, had misgivings about the procedure UNTIL I had it done!

It does not make you DRY as they proclaim, sex is MUCH more enjoyable, no worries about getting pregnant and men would not know, I had one unless I TOLD THEM!!! So the myth about hysterectomies is just that, A RUMORED MYTH!!!

I may not be a lady all the damn time BUT I AM ALL WOMAN and never less than! Hear me fucking *ROAR*!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: When We Pray...

Keeping It Real: When we pray for others, God listens to you and Bless them & sometimes, when you are safe & happy, remember, someone has Prayed for you! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Either Way....

Keeping It Real: All things in life are temporary. If things are going well, enjoy it, it will not last forever! If things are going wrong, don't worry, it will NOT last forever either! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Don't Worry, Be Happy...

Keeping It Real: Worrying does not take away tomorrow's trouble, it takes away today's peace! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Losing Your Sight...

Keeping It Real: Can anything be worse than losing your sight? I say YES, losing your vision! Ya Dig?..

 

Lesson Of The Day: Storage Wars, Hunters, Auctions & Battles..

Keeping It Real: They have new reality shows where storage lockers, rooms, suitcases left in airport are auctioned off to the highest bidder! My thing is, why would folks leave valuables in storage areas and second and more importantly, what about you are watching the show and see some shit you have left behind! Say buh-bye to some prized possessions! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Friendship...

Keeping It Real: Friendship is like BOOK! It takes a few minutes to burn but it takes years to write! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: BUT I Love YOU....

Keeping It Real: This is said EVERY TIME a man gets caught cheating! I only *fucked* her BUT I love you!!!! Mmmmm hmmmmm Since the beginning of time, men have been and are prone to cheat, why?, I would love to know the answer! When women cheat and get caught, they say, it was just something to do OR they leave your ass after being caught! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Prayer & The Wheel..

Keeping It Real: Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when you're in trouble but it is a "steering wheel" that will direct the right path throughout your life! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Look Ahead & Move On...

Keeping It Real: Why is a Car's WINDSHIELD so large & the Rear View Mirror so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Other People's Feeling...

Keeping It Real: Respect people's feelings! Even if it doesn't mean anything to you, it could mean everything to them! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Never Too Late...

Keeping It Real: No matter how far you've gone in the wrong direction, it's never too late to turn around. Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: A Special Meal....

Keeping It Real: A plate of Love, a bowl of Peace, a spoon of Hope, a fork of Care, a knife of Respect, a napkin of Happiness and a glass of Prayer! Enjoy your meal for you are under God's Care! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Family Love...

Keeping It Real: If your mother, daughter, sister, niece, cousin, aunt or grandmother dated a man, that is now interested in YOU, don't do it!!!! It's bad enough, that women have to fend off other women who are not related but a family member?

How can a mother date her daughter's ex-man? her sister's? even a cousin? If the relationship got passed a handshake and a kiss, that is just wrong in my book! Even if you had him 1ST and he dates your family member and then wants you back, UH NO!!!!! How can you go behind a family member? That is worse than sloppy seconds!!

How can you be assured that because you got her old stuff, she won't try to dip and dab, to get back at you?

Some men are just plain ole nasty and I mean that in the sense, that they don't always bathe! So if it is one of those days, he messed with her and then comes to you unclean, you could be licking her juices!

Same goes for women dating and or running through a man's family, as we like to call it! It's nasty if ya ask me! Ya Dig?        

Lesson Of The Day: To Love Or Not To Love...

Keeping It Real: Not everyone who is single is lonely and not everyone who is taken is in love! Ya Dig?..

Happy Birthday To My Beautiful Daughter, Ashlee

♫♪ Happy Birthday To Ya ♫♪Happy Birthday♪♫ I love you Ashlee

Lesson Of The Day: Christian Friends...

Keeping It Real: You are God's special gift to my heart! You walk in His Love, talk with His compassion, teach with His wisdom, care with His kind concern, forgive with His Mercy and Bless with His abundance! God Blessed my heart, the day you and I became friends! Thank you for being that friend! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Vice Versa And Tic For Tac..

Keeping It Real: Men flash money at a woman but get upset & angry when she wants some of it and women flash their ass, breasts, hips & legs at men but feel disrespected when he want some! Ya Dig?..

Happy Birthday Sanai

♫♪ Happy Birthday To Ya♫♪Happy Birthday♪♫ To My 1st grand child Sanai Davis who turns 5 today! Nano Loves you!!!!!

Lesson Of The Day: Money Talked, BullShit Walked...

Keeping It Real: Somebody explain how can a famous man have sex with a child, piss on her, VIDEOTAPE it, get caught, go to court, folks look at tape and it CLEARLY shows HIM as the MOLESTER, makes the child a prostitute, on the tape, he hands her a *few* dollars, sits this child on his lap like he is Santa Claus, the little girl looks frightened, really she does, then ride this child like she is a GROWN woman, she CLEARLY looks 13-14 years old and to say I didn't know her age or she lied about it, would make a REAL man and not a child molester or pedophile think twice about having sex with her because she CLEARLY looks 13-14 years old and when he pisses on her, she is clearly surprised, it is written all over her face, even disgust is there, I know, I WATCHED THE TAPE and then a jury of his so called peers found HIM NOT GUILTY?  

If it wasn't him, which any person in their right mind, who watched the tape, would know IT WAS R. KELLY in my opinion and not his brother as he once said, why would one of the females that was recorded SUE him for recording her in same video tape without her permission? Why wasn't his brother arrested after R. Kelly fingered him as the person on the tape?  If they can arrest R for doing it, why not his brother? Same CHILD, different GROWN MAN!!!! 

How much money was distributed out for this trial and video tape to be swept under the rug? The prosecutor never went after anybody else, even though they had the girl ( grown woman now) in their presence, why not find out who that GROWN man was? mmmmm hmmmmm

AND FANS STILL EMBRACE THIS MOLESTER especially the Black women who knows for damn sure, I believe, IT WAS HIM?!!! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Macaroni & Cheese...

Keeping It Real: *Keyword* is Macaroni! It's the elbow shaped pasta that has been used for ages for mac-n-cheese! I wanted to let folks know, when you use, Penne, Shells, Rotini or any pasta that is not Macaroni, then you are NOT making or made mac-n-cheese! It is the pasta you have used plus cheese! Again, macaroni is the elbow shaped, half circle, half moon like pasta, OK!! Ya Dig?..   

Lesson Of The Day: Have A Safe & Happy 4th Of July...

Keeping It Real: Happy Birthday America.....Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Cocaine....

Keeping It Real: I took James Brown's old song King Heroin and rewrote it about Cocaine! Hope you enjoy it! Thanks... 

 

Ladies and Gents
This is Tonya Ashley
I wanna talk to you about one of our
Most deadly
Drugs in the country today
I had a dream the other night, and I
Was sittin' in my living room
Dozed off to sleep
So I started to dreaming
I dreamed I walked into a dopehouse and
I saw what I thought was a Big White Rock

Standing up talking to the dopefiends, junkies, crackheads And I found out it was Cocaine
That deadly drug that go up your nose, in your veins, in a pipe, laced in weed, eaten
He said
I came to this country looking for an easy ride
Ever since then I've been snorted, smoked, cooked, flushed, eaten, swallowed, all done in stride
My little white grains are nothing but waste
Soft and deadly with a medicinal taste
I'm a world of power and all USERS know it's true
Use me once and you'll know it, too
I have made the smartest of school nerds forget his books
I made world-famous Whitney Houston (r.i.p.) & Amy Winehouse (r.i.p.) neglect their looks
I can make a Bible-toting Deacon forsake his wife
Send a thirsty, I wanna make all the fast money right now man to prison for the rest of his life
I can make a man give me his Porsche, Bentley and his Jag
Make that same man get on his knees for a five-dollar bag
Some think my adventure is a joy and love the high
But I'll put a gun in your hand, make you kill your Momma

while stealing her things as you watch her die.
In pony sacks & cellophane bags I am being used everyday
By Mayors of Big Cities, famous celebrities, entertainers, commonfolks & supermodels walking the runway
I'm financed in Columbia, ran in Peru
I'm respected in Bolivia and I'm legal when it passes from the police hands to the dealer hands then to you

I take my addicts and make 'em beg, borrow, steal
Hell, some become bonafide liars, suck & fuck for it, shit, I even make some kill
So, be you White, Black, Asian, Hispanic or any Ethnic
I can make the most straightest of men suck another man's dick
So now it is used by boys, girls, women, men, age is no limit
Be you, big, bad, tough..I'll break you down and make you timid..
Now the police are trying to stop the import & use of drugs
Weed, Meth, Heroin...they all get some love, BUT COKE gets love & a few hugs
Ha!, I say when you send my users & dealers to jail

Grease a dirty guard's hand & its all taken care of with a visit or by mail
Some are weak and forever say I'm gonna stop

Friends come over with a sack, everything you drop

Curse me in name, Defy me in speech

But you would pick me up right now if I was within your reach
You down on the floor, looking for crumbs you think you wasted

They have names for people like you, Crackheads, Geekers & Chasing Jason
You can't run, you can't hide, rehab can't help you one bit
Especially, if you're on that Imma do it one mo time, just one mo' hit
Powder your nose, make a 51/primo, mount the pony and ride him well
For the white nose candy of Cocaine will ride you to Hell!!! Ya Dig?....

 

Lesson Of The Day: BET Awards TV Show...

Keeping It Real: The BET awards show was pretty good last night! I'm not that BIG on award shows and most def NOT BET awards because, in my opinion, they ARE ALWAYS OVER THE TOP!! Seems to me they allow too much on this award show, other awards are mild mannered BUT BET's, go way overboard and always is so damn long! I know we have been given the short stick on many things but damn...and Samuel L Jackson hosted the show much better than I expected! Job well done....Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: In God's Order...

Keeping It Real:  Put DOWN is not KNOCKED down. KNOCKED down is not KNOCKED OUT. KNOCKED OUT is not LEFT OUT. LEFT OUT is not WOUNDED. WOUNDED is not DEAD. DEAD is not the END. The END is not FOREVER. FOREVER CANNOT BE DELAYED. DELAYED is not DENIED. ALONE is not LONELY. LONELY is not FORSAKEN. FORSAKEN is not FORGOTTEN. FORGOTTEN is GOD'S OPPORTUNITY. GOD'S OPPORTUNITY is your SALVATION. SALVATION is your saving GRACE. GRACE gets you through it all. GETTING THROUGH it all is a BLESSING. A BLESSING IS WHAT WE ALL SHOULD BE TO EACH OTHER. BLESSING each other shows love. SHOWING LOVE is being in the Spirit and doing God's Will. In the Spirit and Doing God's will mean that all the put downs, knock down, knock outs, left outs, wounds and scars, death threats (metaphorical), delays, etc will NOT HARM you for YOU ARE IN GOD'S ARMS. Everything is purposeful and life is a circle. All will be well when you are with God and He is with you! Ya Dig?...