Lesson Of The Day: Keep It Clean...

Keeping It Real: To respond to a nasty remark with another nasty remark is like trying to remove dirt with mud. Ya Dig?..

Happy Birthday Mother

Singing Happy Birthday to my Mother, R.I.P. Love and miss you so much!!!

Lesson Of The Day: H.I.B.G....

Keeping It Real:  I'm just Thankful for another day ! Mercy and Grace has found me another day! As people on God's earth, we should notice a lot of influences the world has on me, you, our children well..... EVERYONE! 

Whether we will admit it or not, is influenced by someone or something! So my new motto is H.I.B.G-Heavily Influenced By God. What or who will you allow to influence you? 

It's ok to use mine, just remember to let your light shine because that motto comes with a price!, JUST like the word CHRISTIAN. People expect you to do things differently, when you call yourself Christ-like! Often times I have found myself being a cheap knock-off of Christ. So H.I.B.G. is a challenge to walk better, do better, talk better, act better!! Ya Dig?...

Happy Birthday Dad

Happy Birthday Dad on your 87th birthday! Love ya so much!!

Lesson Of The Day: Coolest President Of ALL Times...

 

Keeping It Real: President Barack Obama is by far the MOST coolest, hippest and down to earth Prez of all times!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Sleeping With The Enemy...

Keeping It Real: How can a person be FRIENDS with 2 people who can't stand and or dislike each other with much venom?!

Take Jen & Evelyn off of Basketball Wives, for instance, the mutual friend they "had" together, how can she be Evelyn's assistant but still be cordial and friends with Jen? That shit don't mix or fly! 

If you are good friends with both of them, how do you handle the negativity that is sure to be spewed around you? Do you not say anything when your girl is getting dogged out?, do you join in and spit venom on the woman when you are with the other one? Tell me, how can you be friends with 2 people who totally despised each other and REMAIN NEUTRAL??? 

I can't see it being done or happening! People might say, don't get involved or don't say anything but how can YOU, being a GOOD friend sit back and just let folks dog your good friend out? Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Me, Myself & I

Keeping It Real: You don't need someone to complete you, you just need someone to accept you completely! Ya Dig?..

Lessons Of The Day: New Caller ID Scam..

Keeping It Real: They have this new thing called "spoofing"!!! They can change the name on their phone when they are calling you to make it seems as if another person is calling you! 

Beware of the ones that come in from banks and or credit card companies! When they start asking for all your personal info, which they should already have, tell them, you will call them right back! Get their direct line and if they refuse, hang up and call your cc company and or bank to see if they just called! If it was all to the good, pick up where you left off or if it was a scam, then you just dodged the bullet! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Snapple Juices

Keeping It Real: I have always loved the Snapple brand juices and a few days ago I found Snapple in a can which they are usually in a bottle! They have this Very Cherry Punch & Peach Green Tea, can YOU SAY YUM??? They are so delicious and inexpensive as well! Healthy too! Ya Dig?.. 

Lessons Of The Day: Embellishing

Keeping It Real: If you have to LIE to get your point across, then you really didn't and haven't! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Shout About Him...

Keeping It Real: With every breath I take, I acknowledge God. It is a small thing I do, for He who does EVERYTHING for me. After all, I'm just a NOBODY trying to tell ANYBODY about SOMEBODY (Christ) who can save EVERYBODY! Ya Dig?..

Lessons Of The Day: Real Housewives Of Atl Reunion

Keeping It Real:  1st of all, I truly believe Kandi is hurt by Kim NOT paying her the money she owes her and then to believe the b/s, Sheree's hating ass told her! I am so glad, she was able to see for herself, that Kandi never made those statements and SO what?, if she agreed with Cynthia, I believe Kim wouldn't have went either, due to the fact, she was DEAD SET AGAINST being a Black woman for the altered ego picture!

Marlo was FAB as always and I love the new hairstyle! That shit looked real!!!!!

Peter's ass has issues and he should have never made the negative statements about the women, knowing they were going to be published! Cynthia seems like she is growing some balls! Kudos to her and keep growing them, girl!!

Phaedra said Peter LOOKS like Papa Smurf, hell, Peter is a sexy chocolate man BUT Apollo SOUNDS like a SMURF!! OK!!!! LOL


I wonder how NeNe feels about Kim getting her own show? SPINOFF like that Bethenny chick, whose show is boring as hell to me! Don't know how and why they keep renewing the seasons on that one!! Yeah, I know, she is on Glee and has appeared on episodes of other shows BUT thing is, NeNe CAN'T ACT!!! SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!

I thought the hair draped from the side on Sheree's hair was a MINK STOLE!!! LOL For real, it doesn't even  remotely match her hair color! Is Lawrence still doing her hair? Her hair weave and style is a hot mess and she needs to quit throwing folks under the bus and when did she and Kim become BFF?, before or after the hair pulling incident? Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Change

Keeping It Real: "When something doesn't change, change doesn't happen" and when change doesn't happen, it's mostly because you only talked about what you wanted to change and never made an effort to do it! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Rachel/Rachael's Recorded Message

Keeping It Real: 1st, I want to say, I am so sick of this recorded woman's voice telling me she is calling from credit card services! I never give her a chance to even finish, because I hang up as soon as I hear the recording, saying this is Rachel/Rachael from credit card services! LOL My phone service allows me to BLOCK numbers and I have already blocked 6 of this "heffa's" numbers and she keeps changing up! I am on the DNC list, I just don't get it or HER!! Rachel/Rachael or whomever you may BE, STOP CALLING MY DAMN PHONE!!! Ya Dig?.. 

Lesson Of The Day: Kelly Rowland On LaLa's Full Court Life Show

Keeping It Real: On Monday's episode 4/16/2012, was it me or did anybody else, clock how Kelly came into the kitchen when Lala was sitting there talking with her mother about having another child AND in my honest opinion, I BELIEVE Kelly had the *weed* munchies?! 

She came in and started smashing food that was on the table and right in the midst of their conversation, she just rudely interrupted them and asked LaLa "was she going to eat the salad that was in front of her"? 

If you watch LaLa's mother expressions, as she is watching Kelly, they speak volumes! LOL 

She had all the signs of having the munchies, ie: dry mouth, her lips were dry looking as hell, the way she was smashing the food BUT THE REAL KICKER is she had on SUNGLASSES, INSIDE THE HOUSE!!!! 

When a person wears shades INSIDE, they either have a eye problem, which we know she doesn't or they are trying to shield their eyes or a better phrase, trying to hide something! 

Yep, I know all about the munchies from weed and when it comes down, you do exactly what Kelly did on the show!!! Just sayin...Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Mosquito Fog Trucks

Keeping It Real: Back in the day, like late 60's, early 70's..these trucks used to run rampant in our neighborhoods for the mosquitoes! NOT ONE PERSON, ever told us that running through that white, thick, billowy cloud of fog was dangerous! LOL I am assuming our parents were dumb to the fact, that this fog was a chemical being sprayed to cut down on the vast amount of mosquitoes! The person driving the truck never said anything, there weren't any danger signs that I can recall and now years later, as an adult, I sit back and think, WTF & WTH OK!! Ya Dig?... 

Lesson Of The Day: Still Standing

Keeping It Real: Realize & Recognize that I'm not new to this, I GREW to this and while you're trying to keep me down, you need to get your weight UP & BE the person that your age says YOU ARE!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Our Father, God

Keeping It Real: He Is ✔, He Can ✔, He Will ✔, He Has ✔, Blessings ✔, Thy Will Be Done ✔...Amen ✔ Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Infidelity

Keeping It Real: If you catch your mate cheating, do you wild out on them or the person they're caught with? Do you go after the person caught cheating with them even if that person was unaware they had a partner? Do you get more angry, if the person is somebody you know? We know you are going to confront the mate but do you confront the other person too? Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: GoodBye Heartache...

Keeping It Real:

I’m sick of all the stress and mess that keeps me feeling all this turmoil inside, It’s time to love me, my soul, my being, my beauty and my pride. To every beginning, there’s an end, I was meeting you more than halfway, now was that fair? If you were a true man, and knew me, then you know I truly loved you and cared. Sometimes things happen and get so ridiculously and stupidly insane, Today, I take a stand & I say, I’m tired of all the blame, called all kind of names & you playing games.

It’s time to uplift me, praise me and be about me in all that I do, It’s my time, my day, right now, I have learned it’s not always all about you, you, you. Today, I take a stand and I say goodbye to being your mother, maid, stripper and cook, Goodbye to being told by you, I don’t have the right smile, hair, weight and my looks. Goodbye to all my wasted days and nights I have spent alone,

Get to packing your bags and call your sister, brother, HELL you can even call Tyrone. My heart, mind, body and esteem can’t take anymore tugs, pains and aches,

I’m looking for a real positive, gentle, intelligent, understanding and generous man, not a fake. Goodbye to being and doing bad with you, I can do bad all by myself, With that being said, to the left, to the left! Goodbye Heartache...Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Black/White Differences...

Keeping It Real: Why is it when a group of Black boys stand around, they are thugs, bangers & up to no good BUT when a group of White boys stand around, they are just hanging?


Why is it when a Black man kills several people, he is a criminal, gangbanger, low down & no good BUT when a White man kills several people, he is a serial killer and needs professional help?


Why is it called a ghetto mess when a neighborhood is ridden with drugs in a Black community BUT when drugs are running rapid in White communities, it is an epidemic?


Why is it when Black women get cosmetic surgery done, it is called trying to be White BUT when a White woman gets it done. ie: botox, booty implants, she is keeping up with fashion?

Why is it when Black girls get pregnant at a young age, they are lazy, ignorant and will be on welfare BUT when White girls do it, they get their own damn show, 16 and Pregnant? 

Mmmmmm Hmmmmmm Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Beverly Johnson's Full House TV Show

Keeping It Real: Has anybody watched this show? It is on Oprah's new network, OWN! Does she act like this in real life? I have never been a follower of BJ and do not know if she is putting on an act or if this is really her?? She acts like an airhead, dizzy blond and really dense in the brain! 

I cannot believe she called her grand daughter UGLY!!! and thing is, she ISN'T!!! Prettiest lil' baby and why would a grandmother call her daughter's child ugly? She & her daughter DO NOT have a great relationship, matter of fact, daughter was awarded to her Father and he had sole custody while Anansa was growing up! Now that speak VOLUMES!! 

There are 100's of models that are deemed fit to take of their children and she only had ONE!! mmmmm hmmm BJ needs to get her act together, PUT ON A FUCKING BRA and start acting like she is a mother AND grand mother and come back to Planet EARTH!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives (Evelyn Lozada)

Keeping It Real: Is she acting a DAMN FOOL for publicity? She has been into it with almost EVERYDAMNBODY on the show 'cept Shaunie! 

Me wonders, why she didn't go ham and hard on Tami's ass when they were into it? She never took off earrings, ran up on her, threw shit at her, jumped in her face, WHY??????, because she knew Tami would have gotten off in that ass, if she had!!! 

She is HOW OLD? and I wonder how in the hell does 85, excuse me,  I mean Ochocinco deal with her crazy ass! I can not believe that she doesn't act the same way with him behind the scenes!, especially when he has been out & about with his many "female" friends! 

She has gotten into an argument with every female except Shaunie on the show! Royce, Suzie, Kesha, Kenya, Tami, Meeka, Jen and she went hard on all the women 'cept Tami!! 

Mmmm hmmmm, she ain't hard, because if she was, Tami wouldn't have been an option or spared! All the other women just said words, Tami actually laid hands on her, so who do you think she should have pulled the earrings off for? Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Act Like Yourself....

Keeping It Real: Never pretend to be somebody else or act like another person! Be original, never a copy, it takes too much energy, when what matters is how you see yourself!! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: Happy Easter

Keeping It Real: Easter is a holiday that celebrates the Resurrection of Jesus Christ on the third day after His Crucifixion! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: I Didn't Mean It...

Keeping It Real: YES THE HELL YOU DID!!! I just hate when a person says or does something negatively to you and then say, I was just playing or I didn't mean it! B/S!!!! If you want to play, find yourself a TOY or get a damn puppy! You meant it, otherwise, it would have never entertained your thoughts!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: World Cancer Day

Keeping It Real: I Pray for a cure for CANCER!!! 
Amen, Father !! Ya Dig?.. 

Lesson Of The Day: Rihanna & Chris Brown

Keeping It Real: Ummmmm, is it true, she is collaborating a duet with Chris Brown? So correct me if I am wrong BUT didn't he "whup" her ass, Chris got arrested and it made national headlines? 


She is either a glutton for punishment, a damn fool ORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR maybe Chris didn't initiate and beat her ass as she said! Maybe she started it and he was defending himself as he stated and she got roughed up and battered in the process! I mean, come on, what celebrity person goes through what she went through with ALL the publicity, CRY FOUL BUT then wants to sing with the man who made her lose $$$$$, battered, abused & beat that ass! Didn't she lose contract with Covergirl???


I smell a fish and it smells like it is straight from the Barbados Islands, mmm hmmmm Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Just Fabulous/Just Fab Shoes

Keeping It Real: On the real, they do have some very nice shoes for only $39.99 and your 1st buy, you get a % off BUT there is a gotcha', ok!!! 

Once you join their website, YOU MUST READ THEIR FINE PRINT!!! Once you have ordered from them & they have your credit card information, they send you out a pair of shoes each month and CHARGE your credit card for them without you asking for them or even saying it is your style! They say you can send back and have MONIES CREDITED TO YOUR JUST FAB ACCOUNT! NOT REFUNDED BACK but a credit to a shoe account! You have to cancel each month if you don't want them charging your credit card and sending you UNWANTED SHOES!!! Of course you can cancel membership at any time BUT REALLY????

I don't know about other (not rich) women, but I have never purchased a pair of shoes every month in my life and furthermore, I can choose my own shoes without a company choosing them for me! 

$39.99 is not a lot for shoes so the women purchasing them CAN NOT BE RICH, because they wouldn't go this route so these are regular run of the mill women who in my opinion are being YANKED!!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Candy Love...

He was standing there looking like MR GOODBAR. I don't remember his name, it could have been MIKE & IKE, HEATH, or maybe even REESE.We not gonna SNICKER at his M&M, even though they were small as MILK DUDS. I heard BABY RUTH say, he aint no damn ZERO, he sometimes act NUTRAEGEOUS,  hell, he sitting on a 100 GRAND. She said his HERSHEY KISSES tasted like PEPPERMINT and his 3 MUSKETEERS was GOOD & PLENTY.When he hit her TWIX her REDHOT KITKAT, he yelled SKOR and she screamed out his name OH HENRY and moaned PAYDAY!! He finished her off with his BUTTERFINGER and sent her floating on her MILKY WAY. She said he wanted to TAKE 5, because her WHATCHAMACALIT was so much ALMOND JOY, when he came in her MOUND!!.  

So Ladies, Don't give up your HERSHEY KISSES to a SUGARDADDY looking for a PAYDAY or to a DUM DUM like MIKE & IKE who pretends to be MR. GOODBAR but is only a MILK DUD! Flee from AIRHEADS who only come around NOW N LATER for your WHATCHAMACALLIT trying to steal all your ALMOND JOY! Ladies, pass the MILKY WAY there is a LIFE SAVER named JESUS! The sweetest name I've ever known and he aint no BUTTERFINGER!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: If I Changed One Person....

Keeping It Real: When I hear this, I say B/S!!!! You didn't bare your soul and everything negative in your life, to change JUST ONE PERSON!!!! Yeah, it is cool, if you did change "A" person BUT folks don't tell their ALL just to change one person, they want to make an impact on more than a few! Ya Dig?... 

Lesson Of The Day: Five Finger Prayer

Keeping It Real: This is so neat/ beautiful - and I think it is surely worth making a part of our lives.

1. Your thumb is nearest you. So begin your prayers by praying for those closest to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is, as C. S. Lewis once said, a "sweet duty."

 

2.  The next finger is the pointing finger. Pray for those who teach, instruct and heal. This includes teachers, doctors, and ministers. They need support and wisdom in pointing others in the right direction. Keep them in your prayers.

 

3.  The next finger is the tallest finger. It reminds us of our leaders.

Pray for the president no matter how you voted, leaders in business and industry, and administrators. These people shape our nation and guide public opinion. They need God's guidance.

 

4.  The fourth finger is our ring finger. Surprising to many is the fact that this is our weakest finger, as any piano teacher will testify. It should remind us to pray for those who are weak, in trouble or in pain. They need your prayers day and night. You cannot pray too much for them.

 

5.  And lastly comes our little finger - the smallest finger of all which is where we should place ourselves in relation to God and others. As the Bible says, "The least shall be the greatest among you." Your pinkie should remind you to pray for yourself. By the time you have prayed for the other four groups, your own needs will be put into proper perspective and you will be able to pray for yourself more effectively.  Ya Dig?...