Lesson Of The Day: Evelyn Lozada Reconciliation With Chad?

Keeping It Real: Is it me or is Evelyn Lozada prepping us for her reconciliation with Chad?

Don't get me wrong, it is her prerogative to change her mind about wanting to get back with her ex hubby because you can't just turn off your feelings! I'm not saying what Chad did was right but sometimes God does things to humble a person. Chad needed humbling because he was out of control and so was Evelyn on BBW!

I know & know of several women, LOTS, me included who have changed their minds after some b/s has went on in a relationship!, saying, I wasn't going back to him and I did, said I was going to leave and I didn't!!

Thing is her life is publicly aired for the world to see, judge her and say things, especially WE WOMEN, knowing all the time we have done similar shit, IF NOT THE SAME!!!

I say Evelyn, do you, you are the only who has to deal with it and you know just how much you can take and how much to allow BUT if the bad starts outweighing the GOOD, it's time to make some permanent choices! Good Luck!! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: Evelyn Lozada On Iyanla, Fix My Life...

Keeping It Real: The story unfolded about the Chad and Evelyn fiasco! Am I the only one who doesn't believe that Evelyn never, ever raised a hand to Chad? Granted, it does not give him a pass to head butt her and put one finger on her!, but judging from her past encounters with the women on the show, she knows when she is acting out! 

Why?, because she went after the women whom she deemed as weaklings and that she could possibly punk out! Why didn't she go after Tami like that? Mmmmm Hmmm, she knew better and knew she would have gotten the ultimate beat down if she had and she sidestepped on Kenya after she saw Kenya wasn't going to let her punk her out! 

NOW she Takes CHAD BACK!! The show was used as a publicity stunt so she can say, I want to give him a 2nd chance! LOL, right!!! 


I have empathy for her because she is a woman and the events that led to her divorce but I have NO sympathy for her because of her actions on the show! 

Season 6 of BBW Miami is being filmed it said at the end of Iyanla, I am waiting to see JUST HOW MS. EVELYN is going to act!!! Fix my Life, my ass! and the saga continues... Ya Dig?...  

Lesson Of The Day: Chad Ochocinco Johnson & Evelyn Lozada

Keeping It Real: Did he or did he NOT head butt her? My take is this, MAYBE HE DID BUT only because he had to get that crazy heffa' off of him! Come on now, Evelyn is a straight up looney tune! Y'all know it!! She has displayed crazy, erratic behavior, HOW MANY TIMES on the show?! The girl who supposedly said something about her daughter, Suzy, Royce, Kendra, Kesha, Tami (but Tami's wasn't so badly, because she knew Tami would have *whupped* that ass) , Jen and they have the nerve to even let her begin to put the words advocate for domestic violence out of her mouth!!!! REALLY!! WTH!!!! This woman has displayed violence on every season!! EVERY SEASON and we all know Eve is feisty! 

Scenario:

Evelyn: Let me go through his shit! Now I know I told this Black motherfucker on national TV, that if he was going to cheat, use a damn condom, BUT DAMN! REALLY!!!

Evelyn: Chad, what the fuck are these and 2 are gone? We didn't use them!!!!

Chad: Girl, please! You SAID I COULD CHEAT just use protection!

Evelyn: Oh, so you going to take it, *slaps* and grabs Chad by the collar. Starts trying to scratch his face.

Chad: Let me go, Evelyn..

Evelyn, naw, motherfucker, you want to use CONDOMS!!

Chad: Let me go, Evelyn...........

Evelyn: Kiss my ass BITCH, you are a NON MOTHERFUCKING FACTOR when you cheat on me!

Chad: BITCH, let me go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! all the while, trying to ward off her punches and scratches.

Evelyn leans forward and with her all might try to gouge his eyes and then IT HAPPENS!! That BIG ASS SIXHEAD ( her forehead has surpassed 4 and 5)  she has connects with Chad's forehead and *voila* head butt!

It is sad, that it has come to this, Evelyn files for divorce after probably being the aggressor, Chad loses his football career! Thing is, I am hoping he doesn't end up like T.O., on TV crying and shit BUT Chad was released because of this charge NOT because he can't play anymore! Hopefully he'll get picked up by a better team! I do want to say, sometimes God does things to humble us and bring us back to reality and in my opinion, Chad needed humbling! This cut from the team and if he doesn't get picked up SOON means he will be back where he 1st started! God GIVES & He can take away just as quickly! Hopefully, Chad will learn a life & Spiritual lesson! Ya Dig?... 

Lesson Of The Day: Basketball Wives Reunion..

Keeping It Real: I am so glad Jennifer & Evelyn got it together BUT I always knew they would! Who lets 15 years of friendship go to the wayside over a Blog entry THAT WAS TRUE?!! Evelyn was whorish in the 1st couple of seasons and Chad is a womanizer, hell, it showed it on the show with their little talk about his female friends!


I really believe Suzy didn't tell Tami BUT SHE TALKS SO DAMN MUCH, folks do not believe her! She grew some courage by raising her voice on the show, OH YEAH, she was talking to the smallest person on the show, Kesha!! LOL Kesha, kinda grew some courage too BUT I really believe, she will not be back for a 2nd season! I agree, she was bullied, I do not care how Shaunie or Tami tried to sugarcoat it, Tami BULLIED HER!!!

Shaunie tried to say BLOGGERS don't know the REAL DEAL as far as their lives go, HELL, we are NOT behind the scenes, we can only BLOG ABOUT what we SEE!! She, being one of the executive producers, should have shed a better light on the situation! Do she really believe, the women, are going to ACT RIGHT in the next season? HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL to the NO!!! Why does she think folks tune in to watch, strictly for the drama! Shit, we can see other aspects of their lives, on the internet, mags...we want the dirty!!


I want to see how Jen will treat Kenya, once she and Eve get it back together!! Kenya was going to stomp a mud hole in Eve, I think she wanted her to jump bad at that table or the reunion! I think, Eve got the vibe, especially, when they were in Tahiti, because, the way Kenya was looking, Eve would usually have a snide remark, NOT THIS TIME!!!


Anyways, love the show, looking forward to next season! Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives

Keeping It Real: I want to say 1st of all, people are saying Tami "PUNKED" Kesha out, NOPE, she didn't, that was STRAIGHT UP BULLYING!!!!! I believe every woman on the show 'cept Royce is afraid of Tami. How can Shaunie as an executive producer allow Tami to just bully the women? That was some straight up bullshit the way she treated Kesha! and then tries and justify it by saying, she was doing her a favor by getting her property! PLEASE!!! Shaunie asked her before they even left the bar, what was she going to do with her articles? She could have let Evelyn, Suzy or Shaunie grab her stuff, why would she grab it, knowing they just had a big blowout and she was the reason she left the bar? I mean, not one women came to Kesha's defense, yeah Shaunie tried to say something AFTER she left but it wasn't said with force, like she was just play asking! UNFUCKINGREAL!!!! 

Tami, regardless of how you try and sugarcoat the fact that you disrespected the woman by saying she didn't LOOK like a Kesha, she is BLACK!!!! You don't think you owe her an apology for that! That wasn't punking somebody, you did what BULLIES do everyday!! and the shit she said, was after you ATTACKED her verbally, the 1st time! 

Suzy needs her 2 faced talk so much ass WHIPPED!!! How do you go to Kesha and try to make her say sorry just to get HER property? Suzy started all this drama with her BIG ASS MOUTH!!!


Evelyn's fake ass apologized to Kenya but didn't tell her she had loaded her room down with stanking ass fish, if you were sincere with your apology, that should have been said as well! I think, Kenya was waiting for Evelyn to jump out of a bag, DID Y'ALL SEE THE WAY SHE WAS LOOKING? Kenya was getting ready to give her the beating of her life!! She was going to spank that ass!! 

Jen has done some DIRTY SNEAKY shit is why she keeps leaving, Evelyn wants everybody to KNOW, Jen is not sweet, innocent Jen as we see her! Mmmm hmmmmm Ya Dig?.. 

Lesson Of The Day: Sleeping With The Enemy...

Keeping It Real: How can a person be FRIENDS with 2 people who can't stand and or dislike each other with much venom?!

Take Jen & Evelyn off of Basketball Wives, for instance, the mutual friend they "had" together, how can she be Evelyn's assistant but still be cordial and friends with Jen? That shit don't mix or fly! 

If you are good friends with both of them, how do you handle the negativity that is sure to be spewed around you? Do you not say anything when your girl is getting dogged out?, do you join in and spit venom on the woman when you are with the other one? Tell me, how can you be friends with 2 people who totally despised each other and REMAIN NEUTRAL??? 

I can't see it being done or happening! People might say, don't get involved or don't say anything but how can YOU, being a GOOD friend sit back and just let folks dog your good friend out? Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives (Evelyn Lozada)

Keeping It Real: Is she acting a DAMN FOOL for publicity? She has been into it with almost EVERYDAMNBODY on the show 'cept Shaunie! 

Me wonders, why she didn't go ham and hard on Tami's ass when they were into it? She never took off earrings, ran up on her, threw shit at her, jumped in her face, WHY??????, because she knew Tami would have gotten off in that ass, if she had!!! 

She is HOW OLD? and I wonder how in the hell does 85, excuse me,  I mean Ochocinco deal with her crazy ass! I can not believe that she doesn't act the same way with him behind the scenes!, especially when he has been out & about with his many "female" friends! 

She has gotten into an argument with every female except Shaunie on the show! Royce, Suzie, Kesha, Kenya, Tami, Meeka, Jen and she went hard on all the women 'cept Tami!! 

Mmmm hmmmm, she ain't hard, because if she was, Tami wouldn't have been an option or spared! All the other women just said words, Tami actually laid hands on her, so who do you think she should have pulled the earrings off for? Ya Dig?..

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives (Jen & Evelyn)

Keeping It Real: Is it me?, or is there something more going on between Jennifer & Evelyn? Come on now, for Evelyn to get HIGHLY PISSED off every time, she sees Jennifer??? because of a few words on a BLOG?? That she claims she didn't write and they were meaningless words??? She had said same thing on radio about Ochcinco being a media whore!! What is the BIG DAMN deal, that Evelyn wants yo FIGHT HER every time she see her??? Something else happened, that we are not being made privy to! 

Could it be Ochocinco might REALLY BE INVOLVED??? Y'all know, Evelyn is really jealous, could it be he made a sexual remark about Jen? Maybe kissed Jen? did the wild thing with Jen? Maybe said he wanted Jen?? mmmm hmmm There is more going on than meets the eye! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives (Jen & Evelyn)

Keeping It Real: Is it me?, or is there something more going on between Jennifer & Evelyn? Come on now, for Evelyn to get HIGHLY PISSED off every time, she sees Jennifer??? because of a few words on a BLOG?? That she claims she didn't write and they were meaningless words??? She had said same thing on radio about Ochcinco being a media whore!! What is the BIG DAMN deal, that Evelyn wants yo FIGHT HER every time she see her??? Something else happened, that we are not being made privy to! Could it be Ochocinco might REALLY BE INVOLVED??? Y'all know, Evelyn is really jealous, could it be he made a sexual remark about Jen? Maybe kissed Jen? did the wild thing with Jen? Maybe said he wanted Jen?? mmmm hmmm There is more going on than meets the eye! Ya Dig?...

Lesson Of The Day: BasketBall Wives L.A.

Keeping It Real: The 1st episode was off the chain! LOL What I'm trying to understand is, why is Shaunie giving Gloria the spotlight like that? I thought she wanted to whip her ass and her SISTER, but is now fattening their pockets? Hmmmmmmmm


Anyways, Gloria was keeping it real on the 1st BBW, to me she is still keeping it real, BUT I didn't like the way ole boy pushed her out of the way in the kitchen! Wasn't he arrested for domestic abuse against her? Hit me once, shame on me, fuck the 2nd time! Now Kimsha, LOVE HER, was keeping it real, reminds me of NeNe Leakes but without the BULLYING! Imani, seems like she is cool as hell and can be trusted! Laura, Gloria's sister, she acts and dresses hood, well her dress is not hood, she CAN'T dress, on the real! She speaks her mind, that is for damn sure! "LIKE"!! Draya, hmmmmm, she is the prettiest one and seems sharp and cool as hell! She keeps it real & the only reason, they wouldn't want her around without giving her a chance is the way she looks & do not TRUST their mates! So what, she used to strip and dated a couple of players, ANDDDD???? Right!! Jackie seems cool as hell, hooded BUT has finesse with it! LIKE!!! Tanya, LOL, she is the motivator BUT fake as hell! It is all about Tanya! When she moved the spotlight from Jackie's mother who has cancer to herself and her child, mmmmf, mmmf, mmmf! How dare she? She tries to bring some kind of balance amongst the women BUT at the wrong times! WOW!  Last but not least, Malaysia, who goes by her middle name because 1st name is HOOD!! She is phony as hell and needs to keep it real! She has 2 different personas! Around the BBW, she acts all high and mighty but around her Compton girls, she acts like herself! Why not be original?!


I think this series will be BETTER than BBW number one because the women seem MORE REAL! Ya Dig?

Lesson Of The Day: Evelyn Lozada on BasketBall Wives

Keeping It Real: In all honesty, the name should have never been BB wives! There IS only one wife, who is on her way to being an EX-WIFE, 2 ex-wives and the rest are baby MOTHERS, ex-girlfriends & cheerleaders who may have screwed a BB player!!


Onto the lesson, Evelyn, in my eyes KNOWS who and how to pick her battles! Is it me, or has anybody else NOTICED, she can throw a drink in some of the other women faces, slap women, jump tough in their faces BUT, Tami Roman, she stops short? Is it because, she knows, a well whipped ass will come out of it! 

Has VH1 threatened Tami or has Evelyn threatened her with a LAWSUIT, if she lays hands on her. Last season, Tami would have tore Evelyn a new asshole, if things panned out the way they have, just from opening show this season! Has Tami, been threatened with a lawsuit? I say YES!!!!! 


Ladies, let's be real...The TSHIRT quality SUCKS!! You are buying a tshirt for $30 dollars, that have NO GOOD QUALITY about it! They look as if, they were made in a grade school craft class! Regular shirts with IRON ON letters??? Come on females...You guys are actually buying them???

Tami, I know this was done with $$$$ signs all over it, but there is money to be made! Make your own, yeah, I know she probably has it copyrighted and patented BUT that is the F'N Factor, how about jazzing it up, Non Effing Factor because there is money to be made & you can beat her at her own game! Ya Dig?...